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Am I just horny or do I love her?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Ghost79, Sep 7, 2017.

  1. Sep 7, 2017 #1
    Ghost79

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    I don't trust my own judgement anymore.
    Being on NoFap and on an dating site I notice that I have been fantasizing on this specific woman that I've been communicating with for a few weeks now.
    Do I really like her or is it just lust that I have?
     
    Ghost79, Sep 7, 2017
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  2. Sep 7, 2017 #2
    Pmo is in the past

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    Love is just a chemical reaction.If she was hideous,you wouldn't be attracted.You could like her personality and be friends.You are attracted to her looks.No one is really in love.Just horny and eventually like her more when you get to know her more or maybe end up arguing.If no one was horny,no one would be motivated to be in a relationship.
     
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  3. Sep 7, 2017 #3
    Third_Eye

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    Some people don't get into relationships for sex, though.
     
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  4. Sep 7, 2017 #4
    Pmo is in the past

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    True,but if you want a relationship.You would expect kissing and sex.If you aren't interested in sex.Just be friends.
     
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  5. Sep 7, 2017 #5
    Third_Eye

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    Asexuals usually have a healthy, loving relationship with each other, unless they're aromantic
     
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  6. Sep 7, 2017 #6
    Poseidon

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    What does that have to do with anything? Why do you turn almost every topic you post in into an asexual discussion thread?
     
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  7. Sep 7, 2017 #7
    Ghost79

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    I had one woman I really really liked and was attracted too, but she said she wanted only to be friends with me. So that means she liked my personality but rather have sex with another man?
    I feel like garbage if that's so!
     
    Ghost79, Sep 7, 2017
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  8. Sep 7, 2017 #8
    Pmo is in the past

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    She must have liked your personality,just not your looks.
     
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  9. Sep 7, 2017 #9
    Third_Eye

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    Some women are not into sex in a relationship, just like some men are not into sex in a relationship.
     
    Third_Eye, Sep 7, 2017
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  10. Sep 8, 2017 #10
    Ghost79

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    But she said she saw me only as friend.
     
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  11. Sep 8, 2017 #11
    Ghost79

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    What I am actually wanted to ask with this thread is if being on nofap can cause me to cloud my judgement on what I really want from women in a relationship. Now I am horny and I'd say sex is important but when I masturbated regularly I didn't feel that and I wanted a girl that is decent and sometimes and i would even say that sex isn't important to me while I was regularly fapping at home.
     
    Ghost79, Sep 8, 2017
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  12. Sep 8, 2017 #12
    Ghost79

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    Another question, is it advisable to date during my NoFap? What risks would that hold for me?
     
    Ghost79, Sep 8, 2017
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  13. Sep 10, 2017 #13
    fapposian

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    ive been on a date some other day ,n i think thats isnt really problem when u on nofap and on a date as well
     
    fapposian, Sep 10, 2017
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