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Am I (17 M) even capable of functioning like a normal male?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by 5ss5, Apr 25, 2018.

  1. 5ss5

    5ss5 New Fapstronaut

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    I had my first boner to porn and it was how I found out about sex. I never masturbated without porn and I was afraid of being a pervert and in denial of being gay. These caused me to go to porn all the time and I think I’ve seriously screwed up my sexual functioning.

    I:
    - Have never once had morning wood the entire time I’ve been able to have boners

    - Never get random boners; Can’t get hard when I see a really hot guy in real life. I go completely flat indefinitely as soon as I try I quit.

    - Can’t masturbate without porn or thinking about previous porn I have seen

    - Cannot fantasize or imagine myself having sex. I can literally only think of two other people doing it or a previous porn I’ve seen.

    - Never feel horny. Just want to fap and look at porn. I can’t tell if that’s my body’s twisted form of horniness, but I don’t feel that “warmth” around the groin that men describe when they say they’re horny.

    Something tells me I’m going to need to find a boyfriend to solve this all, but I’m not sure what I’m going to do. At my age it’s incredibly hard for me to find a guy, and on top of that gays put a lot of emphasis on sex and I will NOT be able to deliver in my current state. I don’t really know what to do other than abstain. I really hope I’m not asexual and that it’s just some form of sexual dysfunction because I’m screwed as a gay man if that’s the case.
     
  2. PornFreeMe

    PornFreeMe Fapstronaut

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    You are so young, man. Take some deep breaths and relax. Your body is still developing, more importantly, so is your mind. That's where the real problem lies, in your mind. From 17 to 29, I've grown so much. Quit now, make it easier on yourself. Quit looking at porn, quit masturbating, exert self control. It becomes that much harder the older you get. The hard part isn't coming off all this visual stimuli, the hard part is not giving into your conditioned behavior patterns. That's all this is. Like a dog trained to sit for a treat, you have trained your mind to seek its rewards this way. It's a shortcut, a cop-out, and unhealthy/unreal.

    You are so young. Practice safe sex and live your life out in the physical world, not sharking around on the Internet.
     
  3. aerokus

    aerokus Fapstronaut

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    Hey dude, I'm a bit late, but if I have any advice it would be to quit now! My porn addiction was giving me PIED at 17 years old but instead of quitting I let it get worse for the past 3 years, which had a massively negative impact on the sexual aspect of my life. I hope you get better.
     
  4. drkarim

    drkarim Fapstronaut

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    What is ur condition now?
     
  5. aerokus

    aerokus Fapstronaut

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    Just started a new streak, I'm a lot more serious about it this time so hopefully this should be the one. Still got the PIED but I'm not gonna let it ruin my life any longer.
     
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  6. drkarim

    drkarim Fapstronaut

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    Great i hope that to me too
     
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