age 21, 9 years marstubate and severe PIED.

I’m in the same boat. I’m hoping to reset my physical intimacy with my spouse thru rebooting. I’m actually attracted to someone else and would like to get rid of that attraction as well

 

i will be 22 on wednesday. been pmo since 13 i think. making it 9 years fighting with an addiction i didnt know i had.
ive tried and failed countless times, to stop.
telling my self... lying to myself rather. saying that this time would be the last. so far it never is.
the problem will be cured forever, once you stop pmo forever.
thats all it takes, discipline
discipline i dont have and that may of us here are lacking.

 

Looking at porn didn't give you an erection?

 

Hmmm ok... can you give some more details please? Did your erections go away gradually? Were you watching a lot of porn every day? Did the genres you watch get incredibly out of hand?

 

You weren't hard when you relapsed?

 

Can you give more informations about your PMO Habit ?
How many times you M per day ? For how many minutes ?

Personnaly i used to M a lot since the age of 10 3-4 times a day but it was quick less than 5 minutes. One day i M 12 times because i was home alone and i had nothing to do. and i used porn maximum 1 tim per day and i have PIED like you.

 

Don't panic my friend ! Most of us are has the same problem. The solution is stop PMO and important clear your mind from old thoughts. Your erection will come back but not so soon. This will take 6 months or 1 year maybe and 2 years. All we here must be focus to the target.

 

Ok but did you use P a lot ?
Sometimes i wonder if very excessive MO with imagination alone can cause PIED because i didnt use P that much in comparison with someguys...

 

I've masturbated since my 9s and porn came at 11. This really destroyed the past 3 years of my life, and i've failed countless times, and all due to my weak will, because, if a small urge came, i already masturbated like it owed me money... And what's worse is that i couldn't last even 2 minutes... and with gentle masturbation! I've always fooled myself with the argument that "last time, i wasn't serious, but this time, it is for real". And i've always failed more and more. But i really want to stop, now, i'm 5-6 days, i think.

 

I would have hugged you now

 

Stop watching porn and leave your dicks alone to heal. Otherwise it’s only gonna get worse.

 

I've experienced PIED for 4 years and belive me. You can't relapse, you must stop drinking too and it's good to have a partner to help you. That's how I got better .

 

Are you seeing any results now at 107 days?

 

Friend! I have the same symptoms as you, with your same age. I have been suffering from ED for 5 years ..
Talk to me so we share experiences and we can help each other