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After how many days of NoFap did you have a wet dream?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Deleted Account, Dec 10, 2018.

  1. I'm on day 57 and I've not had a wet dream yet.

    Some people hate wet dreams, but I'm curious to experience one again and it also feels like a good sign of recovery .

    I know some guys just don't have wet dreams, but I did experience a few in my teens, not had one for a long time though (probably due to daily MO).

    So, how long did it take everyone else?
     
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  2. Flyhigh

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    Usually a month.
     
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  3. Fenston999

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    Mine come and go depending on how much I'm working on myself/meditating. First one was six weeks in, then every two weeks for months on end. Longest stretch was 3 mos. I don't like them at all, they feel like a relapse since I'm basically watching porn in my mind and sometimes I'm even masterbating. They are usually dark for me too esp the longer I go without. ie one I had not long ago I was literally being rubbed off by a demon. It was disgusting.
     
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  4. Wow, I hope I don't experience anything like that! Funnily enough I did dream that I'd relapsed recently, although it was just a dream. I can remember one of the dreams from my teens. I was desperate for loo, when I finally got to the toilet, that's when it happened.

    Do you find meditating reduces or increases wet dteams?
     
  5. Fenston999

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    Ya. They aren't always like that, but I prefer not to have them in general anways.
    Meditating definitely decreases it. Slows the mind down before bed so less lustful dreams. Yes I've had a number of wet dreams where I needed to urinate extremely bad, finally did and felt a wave of relief, only to wake up realizing I had ejaculated in my sleep. Also I've noticed for me wet dreams tend to conincide with full moons often.
     
  6. read my story

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    I had a wet dream last night ejaculated in the sleep, after 2 weeks without porn, only sex with my gf. It felt bad because i dreamt the porn videos i was watching and it shake my self confidence a little...
     
  7. Slick Willie

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    Dont feel bad. Its not like youre sitting at a desk with a box of Kleenex for a couple of hrs starring at a monitor.
     
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  8. Hank Pym

    Hank Pym Fapstronaut

    If you are not having wet dreams, that also means your semen is reabsorbing to use for entire body and mind(sexual transmission).
    I didn't had any wet dreams till days 70...because I ate lots of junk food in day 67-69. Also did heavy cycling.
    The other wet dream was 6 days after I relapse, also because of oily food and heavy trekking.
    And my friend's family doctor told him to reduce leg workout, because that increases the unnecessary testesteron level due to penis friction,which lead him to heavy pmo.
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    So I conclude that the wet dreams are independent of streaks and never occur untill there is sudden change in your diet or you do heavy leg workout.
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    But I suggest you to not expect them. Because once I did too and it increase my lust and urges, and relapsed instead of having wet dream.
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    Take care
     
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  9. Hank Pym

    Hank Pym Fapstronaut

    Was it before addiction or during?
     
  10. Slick Willie

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    Personally not since I was a teen back in the 70s. Not one since I discovered masturbation.
    ( And it ain't cycling if it's on a stationary bike. )
     
  11. Fenston999

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    Excercise always seens to help me. I'm putting energy into other things, less thoughts and such. I definitely feel more urges after a wet dream which is why I try to avoid them. I think it just takes time. After years of porn you still have that harem of women in your subconscious mind and they come for you in the night so to speak, even if in your conscious mind your done with all that.
     
  12. LoyalKnight

    LoyalKnight Fapstronaut

    Usually after one week it starts, but not after a few days of a relapse. A wet dream is a very positive thing, it forces your brain to rewire faster than it would without wet dream.

    On my last streak which lasted 111 Days I had somewhere around 40 wet dreams, believe it or not. Perhaps even more .
     
  13. read my story

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    But is it a good thing if you ejaculate??
     
  14. LoyalKnight

    LoyalKnight Fapstronaut

    A wet dream is not an ejaculation! It is fully natural. You do not lose the same kind of sperm you use when you ejaculate (PMO), you lose more precum than sperm, if you lose sperm at all. It looks different and it smells not like a full blown-out ejaculation.

    Nevertheless, wet dreams cannot be avoided. You should not fantasize before sleeping, but even if you do not waste a single thought to sexual urges you will still have wet dreams.

    Hope that helps.
     
  15. Clean Willy

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    Haha! Nonsense! Of course a wet dream is an ejaculation! Please tell me the source of this misinformation that you lose more precum than sperm. Has anyone else found wet dream ejaculations look or smell different from when you PMO? :rolleyes:
     
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  16. Clean Willy

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    Wild speculation. Where is the evidence that a wet dream "forces your brain to rewire faster"?
     
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  17. LoyalKnight

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    Whatever. Think what you want - good luck in avoiding wet dreams then my dear friend!
     
  18. read my story

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    Well i came off while having wet dream.. and i was dreaming how i was watching porn. And i came off and felt bad..
     
  19. Clean Willy

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    That is normal and understandable. You have probably been using porn for a few years and have seen thousands of hours if sex, even taboo or extreme sex. :eek: So your mind has all the information it needs to produce its own porno based on your tastes. Your brain believes you are doing it for real and so you get a boner and shoot your semen. It does feel bad because of the link to the thing we are trying to avoid. It is not a relapse, so clean up (mind and body) and get on with your day. ;)
     
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  20. I don't think it is true. I did not have a wet dream yet. It was the last time I was in puberty.
     

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