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Advice for the nofappers *must read*

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by thepersonathome, May 7, 2014.

  1. thepersonathome

    thepersonathome Fapstronaut

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    Who do you want to be?

    So the other day I got a text at 3 am from a friend of mine and it said "who do you want to become". I mean who writes a text a like that especially at 3 am in the morning haha. I wasn't sure if he meant as like my future job or like as a person.

    Ask yourself, "Who do you want to become" and take the time to write down a long paragraph. Begin your sentence with "I want to be..." or something like that. Try being general and giving yourself qualities. For example instead of saying "I want to read more books" try finding out the reason why you want to read more books. "I want to immerse myself in a sea of knowledge and become more imaginative and creative." And then with what I wrote I can come to the conclusion that I may want to read more books and watch more movies. So write something general and try to analyse it to see what solutions you can do to become a changed human.

    You can do this to find out if nofap is essential to who you want to be. You can post your paragraph here or keep it to yourself. Anyways I am going to write what I wrote in the next post so you can see an example. I encourage all of you to ask yourself "Who do you want to be"
     
  2. This is AMAZING. You have awesome friends haha. Definitely doing this "who do you want to become" stuff right now. I love your reading book example. We often are so focused on our dreams hat we forgot that we have to act if we want them realized.

    I will probably write an actual book of what I want to be so I won't post it here, but will read with extreme attention what all you guys say. Thank you thepersonathome, really great post!
     
  3. thepersonathome

    thepersonathome Fapstronaut

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    I would like to become someone with brimming confidence and filled with motivation in order to live my life to its full potential.
    I want to be dedicated to myself, my friends, and eventually a special other.
    I want to be wise and spiritual but still be able to have fun.
    I want to immerse myself in a sea of knowledge and become more imaginative and creative.
    In order to do this I must enforce my mind, body, and spirit.

    So "who do you want to be?"
     
  4. I want to be an artist.
    I want to be well known, and not famous, not for what I do but for what I am.
    I want to be a supportive person than you can trust.
    I want to be a loving mother and caring spouse.
    I want to be able to jungle between family life and work effortlessly.
    I want to work hard and be proud of myself.
    I want to be a Christian in everything I do and everything I am and never forget that I am nothing without God.
    I want to love myself more and recognize that I am a human being that sometimes do really great things.
    I want to know as much as possible what I love and never hate anything but Evil.
    I want never to be a slave anymore of a human being.
    I want to be as healthy in mind than in body.
    I want to be a good sister, a good daughter and a good friend.
    I want to be good, do good and look good.
    I want to be an example in every way of life - carrier, family, believer, human being.

    I want to be the best version of myself. Because I am me and there's nothing I can do about it. So I just have to do my best.
     

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