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Advice, can i give a girl oral during hardmode?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by robs66, Sep 28, 2018.

  1. robs66

    robs66 Fapstronaut

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    As the title says, i'm avoiding PMO on hardmode but can i eat her out lol? Will it mess my dopamine levels up
     
  2. I think I would not do it if she does not raise my dopamine level up otherwise I would do it. :D
     
  3. robs66

    robs66 Fapstronaut

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    Hahaha she's raising more than just my dopamine levels, how ever i told her and had to explain to her what NoFap is. 'I go these boxers ain't coming off. Not even for you' I said i can still please you. This 52 day streak has been 10 years in the making
     
  4. Headspace

    Headspace Fapstronaut

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    Stop caring about dopamine too much. You also release dopamine when you eat good food. Do you feel that eating a tasty meal affects your recovery? If at all, you don't want to stop realeasing dopamine, but get your dopamine household back in its natural order again. Then again, this is all useless because you have never even measured your "dopamine levels", or did you? So you just imagine to have high or low dopamine because of this, but you never even know what's actually the case. Listen to your intuition and gut feeling instead.

    Is it important to you to do hard mode rebooting? If you want to have sex, why not go soft mode instead? If you don't want to have actual sex but only do your oral stuff, do this, and just stop categorizing. No, I wouldn't say it's hard mode, but you are the one who decides which way of rebooting is best for him. Personally, I would feel weird by only giving oral to my significant other. I would probably feel like a lesbian woman instead of a guy. But it's up to you to decide.
     
  5. torrace

    torrace Fapstronaut

    Personally, you need to take care of your girl's needs too. Also it is your goals, and ultimately, you want to stop P and M. Would be good to re-evaluate your goals from time to time too.
     
  6. robs66

    robs66 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the feedback guys, had a rethink on this. She a girl i'm casually dating. I think i want to just keep it hard mode all the way through. I can always get sexually active later. I've set a target of 100 days hard mode, which im pretty blinded by and means a lot to me if i carry it out and i'm fine with that. Also with dopamine levels i want to try keep to a low in all aspects. I've had problem with food addiction in the past, addiction to watching tv playing video games, generally addictive personality. So far the 50 days have showed significant change, had more energy and motivation to hit gym dropped a couple of waist sizes gained muscle and also socially become more active
     
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  7. Meditation Monk

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    I am glad this had made a difference in your life. Keep strong and you will overcome your urges. Good speed ahead. And do not give in to them.
     
  8. robs66

    robs66 Fapstronaut

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    Like wise brother. Super powers are real! I find some of us never had to chance to develop certain social skills or overcome certain anxieties (due to upbringing and habits) and just having a little extra energy and aggression can give that extra push in to a transformation and it just snowballs.

    Keep it up you will get to a point where the strength you feel inside is a lot more better than PMO. I don't even feel like looking at the porn that circulates on whats app convos or girls sending me nudes on snapchat.

    How ever when i do feel horny i need to avoid getting my self in to freaky situations with females over a Starbucks. Again in the past never would have the balls get my self in these situations.
     
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