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Action... Ways to Give Back / Fight P

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by TryingToHeal, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. TryingToHeal

    TryingToHeal Fapstronaut

    So, my husband has expressed that he would be interested in doing things that would help people see how bad P is and what a negative impact it has on our society. He is currently 4.5 months PM free and has completely changed his view on P all together, he says. He hates that he contributed to all the negative things that porn can do or is involved with. He hates the thought of children growing up thinking P is normal, etc. and wants to fight it. He said he wants to protest or wear a shirt daily or something that shows how against it he is now (I'm not sure that is the best approach but I don't know). He has looked at the Fight the New Drug site to try to get ideas and then he also asked me to help him come up with things he can do, but we haven't been able to really find anything. I found some volunteer opportunities but the ones I saw involved actually meeting some of the women in these bad situations like trafficking, strippers, etc. and for obvious reasons he doesn't want to go there.

    So, my question... does anyone know of any solid things that he can do to fight back against P in society? Actions he can take or something he can actually DO to help him feel like he is giving back in some way? I thought you guys may have some ideas for him.
     
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  2. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    Out of the Darkness.com ... Look it up
     
  3. WantsToBelieve

    WantsToBelieve Fapstronaut

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    I've thought about getting a shirt through FTND, they have ones that say 'Porn Kills Love' that I want to wear out, loud and proud. But I've chickened out of ordering it for some reason. I've shared articles from their Facebook page before, that sometimes gets a dialogue going with friends about the whole issue. I doubt there are any actual protests/gatherings in my area because I live out in east bumf***. So, sharing on social media is one way I've started fighting back myself.
     
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  4. TryingToHeal

    TryingToHeal Fapstronaut

    I think we have looked at this one, but I will again, thanks.
     
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  5. TryingToHeal

    TryingToHeal Fapstronaut

    I've seen those shirts. I don't love them for some reason, not really sure why, just don't. Ha. He doesn't do social media at all, so that is out. And we live in a really populated area, but I've never seen any protests or anything about it. The place we live is a huge center for human trafficking, so I'd think there would be, but I haven't see anything.
     
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  6. SpouseofPA

    SpouseofPA Fapstronaut

    I think its great he wants to help. Hopefully someone has a answer
     
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    Kenzi Fapstronaut

  8. Broken81

    Broken81 Fapstronaut

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    I was thinking about this too the other day. I'm not sure what I can do without 'outing' my husband as he is only new on this journey. I remember at high school training to be a peer educator, we took classes to educate our fellow classmates on alcohol/drugs/sex. I think that is the place to start.... educating high school kids on the dangers of pornography. I had drug/cigarette/alcohol awareness in school and the military. But I was so ignorant on the harmful affects of pornography, as was my husband, until it was far too late. Education/awareness I think is key to fighting this.
     

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