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Action!? ... or not!!! Have you actually Prepared for it?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by aron, Jan 14, 2014.

  1. pooman789

    pooman789 Fapstronaut

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    Fantastic guide!
     
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  2. INSPIRATION RIGHT HERE. that post was speechless. it spoke volumes. thanks for the advice.
     
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  3. hellfire2

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    Yes some people can find filters make things worse as they see it as a temptation to try and are not as vigilant. I believe should experiment and go by the results. For me filters do not work. I practice acceptance that I cannot control my porn addiction and therefore must not engage in it in any manner.
    The best way to break a bad habit is to replace it.. For me exercise or a good book. Slowly my brain will learn to associate loneliness/disappointment reading or exercise.
     
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  4. mijereah

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    Excellent post! I think eventually the ones who make it to 120 days or more leave this site and find better things to do with their lives. I think there does need to be a termination phase and a period where one just releases any notion or idea that they were once addicted. There is a time to leave it behind and forget the past and move on to a better future. I think that's why we don't see so many counter statuses on here that say "365 days since last relapse"....
     
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  5. Maxisaurus

    Maxisaurus New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you very much Aron! This is a amazing post
     
  6. anon01

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    thanks for the post , felt enlightened by reading this , now i know , although most of us have the desire but the knowledge is half , i myself have had a habit of falling back when the withdrawal gets worse , i can beat this symptoms and this altogether now i think, thanks for the wonderful post man.
     
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  7. thedaring9

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    Just relapsed after 41 days ... get rid of smartphones ... so true. What sucked was the O wasn't even pleasurable.

    Thank you for your post, as I see what went wrong . I'll try again.

    (ps. was first try after joining community, this is already working!)
     
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  8. headedup

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    Good advice thanks!
     
  9. Justquit

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    Anything written by Patrick Carnes is a must read for anyone wanting to understand the underlining reasons why we act out and the cycle of the addiction beyond just the "reboot" brain info that is passed around on here. He is the expert in this field.
     
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  10. thangwin

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  11. NoFap30days

    NoFap30days New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a lot for sharing this post Aron.... This is my first day and I am equipped with quite good preparation(thanks for helpful posts in this community to 3-4 posts I have read by now)..... I have kept 30 days with No relapse goal....I am sure I will be able to achieve it...
     
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  12. Kurapika

    Kurapika Guest

    This is a must read thread.
     
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  13. I read this post everyday.
     
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  14. Falcrum

    Falcrum Fapstronaut

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    very informative post...with lots of insights.
    keep up the good work william.
     
  15. palo

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    thank you for this thread it has very good information to start and stay for long time with no pmo thx
     
  16. Incredible thread ! A must read for everyone !
     
  17. Sinbad

    Sinbad Fapstronaut

    When I wanted to quit porn, I only hid the videos. I deleted them now. Thanks for the good advice. Great post!
     
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  18. Muha

    Muha Fapstronaut

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    Any of you still on Nofap
     
  19. 1ANDDONE

    1ANDDONE Fapstronaut

    We are here and there. But, once the problem is fixed, the problem is fixed. For the older here, the problem has been fixed for more than a decade. Just know, it is fixable.

    Much love.

    William.
     

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