Accidentally saw topless woman online, FEEDBACK PLEASE

I shall say, it was almost a relapse, and please be careful next time. You may not be able to stop it every time before a real relapse happens.

Good luck!

 

you relapsed . if you consider it not a relapse than you shall loose the fight

 

Lol dont be so scrupulous. We cant defend against every instance of porn; society is saturated with it. But we can change our attitudes to it. Recovered alcoholics can still walk past a bar; the point is that they keep walking.

Like, it's hard to avoid occasional nudity/sex scenes on films and tv, but I dont have a heart attack. I just see that i'm at a cross-roads and, with perseverance, i've taught myself to choose the narrow road, rather than the PMO highway. You get stronger with each victory, like the one you had here, and it gets easier.

 

I decided to delete my Plenty Of Fish account also the other day, for many reasons that have become rational since joining here.

1; The amount of time spent on there when nearly always it goes nowhere does not add up at all.

2; All of the things I could be doing with that time instead.

3; I now believe the ever increasing popularity of online dating sites is starting to have an impact on us in society and creating a bigger divide in the battle of the sexes.

4; I've been on quite a few internet dates from having a subscription to match.com over a 6month period, and again look back at it as a waste of time and a false sense of reality with false situations.

...5; I want to live my life in the real world!!


and finally number 6; I realized that looking at endless pictures of girls showing themselves off and you desiring them from afar is definatly a huge trigger to progressing onto porn. It's so much easier to just forget about all of that.

 

Exactly Anjuna, (awesome record label by the way!)

As I said I was pretty successful with the subscription so my opinion for it all now doesn't come out of annoyance of a lack of attention. I do think that it's very easy for women to get used to getting a kick out of the attention they receive on there. Because they're getting all this attention they can waste your time, lead you on etc. I completely agree with ya that it grows a resentment towards them for us. None of this is neccesarily their fault, it's just the way things go.
But I do believe in the end it's making a bigger devide between the sexes because it's unnatural.

 

So well said Alex. Do we choose to be a strong minded individual or become weaker by giving into basic animal urges.