Abstinence April.

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by RobinCoenBrosFan, Mar 31, 2019.

  1. RobinCoenBrosFan

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    At this moment, I’m making the decision to begin what I like to call “Abstinence April,” which is basically the 30-Day No PMO Hardmode Challenge. Until I get a good job and a cheaper place to live, this month will not be used for acting upon sexual urges, or pursuing sex (for the time being). There is a clinic in the city that does free phone consultation for these problems, and I’ve decided to take advantage. Time to find serious work in the city, get that $10 a month gym membership, and no more sitting around.

    Let’s do this!

    ~Robin
     
  2. Thistimeitsfinal

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    I’ll be joining you, I’m into my second 30 days hard reboot going for 90. It can be done.
     
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  3. Seawolfee

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    Indeed! I just made 90 days of hard mode, but my mind changed. I Dont want to PMO ever again. I will keep this up as long as i can!
     
  4. Thistimeitsfinal

    Thistimeitsfinal Fapstronaut

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    When you say you “changed your mind”, was it in fact a conscious decision or was it a moment of weakness?
     
  5. Seawolfee

    Seawolfee Fapstronaut

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    Well in the first days i was like, i hit 90, MO, ane then Maybe next streak. In the middle PMO and even MO looked so awfull to me so i Dont want to do this ever again. Moemnt of weakness? Nooo. That was moment of great power. Indeed now i fully control myself
     
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  6. SweetTransformation

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    Yes, I wanna do this; take a whole month without PMO. It's a step by step thing, I know I can do this and so can you guys if you put your mind to it.
     
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  7. Homeslice

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    Don't want to blogpost, but I'm definitely in. Too much stuff going on in my life right now and I'm already 8 days into a good streak, so I guess I'm just going to roll with it for the rest of April.
     
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  8. A Classic Albatross

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    Amped to be with a community to get a good recharge. Been a difficult few months to rebound, im glad someone posted this!
     
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  9. Homeslice

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    Fappers or not, community is a very important part of the human experience. We're glad to have you here brother!
     
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  10. daniel193

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    Yeah 30 days would be amazing... I'm in!
     
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  11. RobinCoenBrosFan

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    By the way, I’m gonna be devoting less time to watching internet videos and reading articles and more time doing random physical activity (sit-ups, walks, curls, squats, etc.), trusting that it’ll help me in some form.
     
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  12. sboncen

    sboncen Fapstronaut

    Hello from the UK.

    I'm on a 2 week abstinence so far. I've tried abstinence before but it always ends up in me going back to porn. My goal is to only orgasm through sex with my wife. PMO destroys my relationship with her, it makes me really pissed off all the time and I feel horrible. Sex then becomes difficult for me as I can't seem to finish... it's incredibly frustrating.

    So i've been totally abstinent so far for 2 weeks. Wife is currenly on the rag so that extends this period somewhat. Going to join in with you lot on the April challege. I'd love to take PMO out of my life completely.

    It's nice to start looking forward to sex again. It's absolutely crazy that I have access to sex pretty much anytime I want and I choose PMO instead... the 14 year old version of myself would bitchslap me if he knew.

    Good to meet you all
     
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  13. renard49

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    Going into Abstinence April full focused on semen retention without PMO. At the end of the month, I'll be almost halfway to 90 days PMO free! I will check back every day!
     
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  14. daniel193

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    I totally understand that frustration mate, it's horrible not being able to focus on your relationship (real, meaningful, someone you love) and instead be obsessed with porn (fake, imaginary, forgotten again in an instant).

    Good luck with it, let us know how you get on.
     
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  15. Homeslice

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    You're not alone. That's the main reason I found NoFap is because I was tired of erectile dysfunction getting in the way of a full relationship with the woman I loved. I havent been able to quit for good yet, but it does get easier as time goes on. I hope this last streak is my final one, but I know that you and I and all our brothers are doing good and taking steps in the right direction.
     
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  16. incoming34

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    I'm giving this a shot except i will try to get laid with actual females, yea putting my big dick inside their pussies.
     
  17. Aurora Chaser

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    I’m in! Currently on 10 days and let’s rock this together.
     
  18. RobinCoenBrosFan

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    I had trouble getting hard the last time I made love....and it was to someone who I decided I wasn’t attracted to. Hoping the next time will be to someone I care for, and axing PMO for REAL will not prevent me from getting a fucking boner, and that there is no early onset ED. I’m trying to maintain a positive attitude and not feel like a complete lost cause in life who can’t succeed at his goals and is too weird and eccentric to find real companionship, but it’s extremely difficult. “Own your weirdness,” they say, but that can be hard too, when few tangible results come.
     
    Last edited: Apr 3, 2019

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