For those partners using boundaries and consequences, I'd like your thoughts. Once a consequence has come to an end (for us its separate sleeping arrangements) if the husband still completely disagrees that they've done anything wrong should a) the situation that occurred be just left at that and we move on even though nothings resolved or b) the PA needs to own and acknowledge and validate what he did wrong. If he refuses, should a consequence continue until they do so. I'm totally stuck on this because I feel like he needs to own it and validate it. Otherwise I find it extremely difficult not to hold resentment and just to move on. This is because i know it'll just happen again. The fact that he so strongly disagrees makes it hard to resume normal relations or even want him to touch me. How are other wives/partners handling this?