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A Message to the World (8 months clean)

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Aviator24, Feb 11, 2019.

  1. Aviator24

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    Thanks for sharing your thoughts as well, I actually benefited from them. Goodluck buddy
     
  2. Pucchi

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    CONGRATS BROTER!!!!!
     
  3. Aviator24

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    Thanks!
     
  4. Aviator24

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    Exactly. Ofcourse you have to research hypnotherapy and you have to be comfortable with it. I tried it for years and it works wonders. Experiment and see what works for you
     
  5. Pucchi

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    Please like my comment so i can set my signature...
    only 1 like.
    i am new to nofap...
     
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  6. Damn this is a great post! Thanks for sharing
     
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  7. Aviator24

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    Glad you liked it
     
  8. slug175

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    Awesome post and you hit the nail on the head. Lately I've lost sight of the big picture. I've only been focusing on just cutting out porn and I've had terrible results. Your post has remotivated me to look at this problem from a different point of view. One of mastery of self rather than simply trying to abstain. Thanks bro
     
  9. Aviator24

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    That's good man i'm happy you feel this way. It's important to keep the big picture in your mind. Always go for the nofap with big goals in your life, not just to abstain from masturbation as you mention. Goodluck buddy
     
  10. Puretim

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    Excellent post.
     
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  11. Asgardian36

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    a great post, man! Thank you for that! I loved the quote - “Change happens when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of change”
     
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  12. Aviator24

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    Exactly
     
  13. processofhope

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    Thank you so inspiring!! For me getting dumped by a girl I really liked sent me to NoFap, low self esteem, fear and lack of intimacy destroyed my masculinity, and I want it back damn it.. like you wrote finally 'the pain of not changing is greater than the pain of changing', sick of living this way, been off p and m since breakup a month ago, and one day at a time never want to see that toxic stuff again. Really great suggestions and inspiring to know that we can heal from this and live a REAL life, so thanks again bro!
     
  14. Aviator24

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    That's great man. A great way to understand self image, fear and mascunility is through self help books and hypnosis. It took a few years, but it's worth every single day since you'll build an extremely powerful mindset for the rest of your life.
    Goodluck buddy
     
  15. Puretim

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    I agree that FOR ME there is no healthy porn. This guys mentality is a sign of the times we live in.
     
  16. aliceal

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    Sensational. Inspiring. It's the light at the end of the tunnel. You described everything we've been through with this unfortunate vice. And when we seek help, we are encouraged to continue with the vice. However, when we discover forums such as this, we realize that much of our problems will be solved with the end of this compulsive behavior that is ending our physical and mental health. I'm starting over, it's only 10 days, I know it will be difficult, but rewarding. hug
     
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  17. Puretim

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    I meant NO HEALTHY MASTURBATION FOR ME. We live in a time of instant gratification and satisfaction. If it feels good do it. Don't wait for anything- indulge now. Practicing self restraint, self denial and even the mildest asceticism is almost a joke. I've been to S.A.A. mtgs and heard the story's of guys who masturbated until they were so sore they could barely walk. Not only that but we waste our essence. We throw away our life force. We EMSCULATE ourselves. While I agree with much of what you said I definitely take issue with the idea that apart from porn , masturbation is good and healthy.
     
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  18. Hi man all i want to know is your name not full name or anything that might give who you are away just a name to a hero that truly is opening my mind to something i was blind to all my life.
     
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  19. Aviator24

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    That's great. The days will pass by quickly, it's important you remove the bad habit as soon as possible and change your mindset significantly. Good luck man
     
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  20. Aviator24

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    I understand. As 'guyfrompoland' said, masturbation is probably a habit we invented out of our instant gratification desires and so. That's probably true. I'm not sure if the author from the book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' knows about this nofap community, however his intention is that even if we want to masturbate alone let's not use it while watching porn. I do NOT say that we practice that, I'm just explaining it from his perspective. For myself I'm abstaining from masturbating completely unless there's a woman with me. It's much healthier from every perspective you can think about
     
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