A guy told me he liked me a lot

So if you deleted his number how did he text you back? You said you were sorry but you didn't feel the same? In a good way or bad way?

Any chance I can know what he said which you didn't like... interesting to know as a man, you know. And he probably feels like he made a mistake lo

 

Sounds like a guy that can't maturely accept the fact that things didn't work out with you. You're not interested and he's reacting in an insecure and immature way.

 

I think you know the answer, don't let our opinions sway you.

 

Did you talk over a hot chocolate or a chocolate candy bar?
Anyways, it’s up to you to determine if what he said to you is a dealbreaker or not. We don’t know what he said. It’s good that you’re able to feel loved again, that’ll get better and better as time goes by.

 

I think he probably feels lonely, and wanted to at least try to message you. As a guy, I think we owe it to ourselves to at least try and figure out what we did wrong. I think it's kind of what you are doing by asking us this question. You are trying to learn from it, and I guess he is doing the same. In terms of that text message he sent you. I think he was just trying to reconnect. As a guy, I think the hardest part about trying to find someone is it's so easy to say the wrong thing. Regardless, I'm glad your feeling better, and hope you find what the information your looking for.

 

I just read this article that I think might help: https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
If you're confused about this guy, I think you might have your answer. But you might want to try a date and see how it goes.

 

Great story! LOL

 

Ordinarily, this would be great advice however, given your situation I'd consider examining WHO you are meeting up with. You're failing before you start.

 

Congrats on improving yourself it is hard to realize someone you really like doesn't like you, so maybe that's why he's trying again. Just be really clear in that you are not interested, in a gentle but firm way. Nice story, it's really useful for me a 19 year old girl. Thanks for sharing

 

Well, I think the guy should just accept that you said no to him and move on. I get the impression that he’s being pushy and not taking no for an answer.

As you don’t like him in that way and not have feelings for him. I think it’s clear that you don’t want a relationship with him. Don’t feel guilty about saying no, and be proud that you’re being true to yourself here as well as self improvement.