90 day challenge starting today who is in?

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Saoconrado40, Apr 12, 2019.

  1. gB_96

    gB_96 Fapstronaut

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    or the 22nd page. lol.
     
  2. 12ove

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    I am sorry, I am still very confused. How can one edge if they are not Ming?

    I promise to not PM for the next 24 hours.
     
  3. Murtaza

    Murtaza Fapstronaut

    By not Ming, I meant that there was no ejaculation.
     
  4. Ghost79

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    I have absolutely no respect for people here that edge. In my eyes that's almost just as worse as fapping. And even coming in here and telling us that don't help either :confused:
     
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  5. Murtaza

    Murtaza Fapstronaut

    I know that edging is even worse than fapping as you get dopamine high for hours due to that. It's an accountability thread, that's why wrote about what happened that day.
    Chill out.
     
    Last edited: May 21, 2019
  6. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    You are in the list now. Welcome :)
     
  7. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    Well, I think the pertinent question is whether your counter should still be on 17 days.

    I have not been including a day count against your name in the list for a while, partly because your goal isn't set to no PM / no PMO, partly because you've said you edged.
     
  8. 12ove

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    So looking at images of women is an edge, but for his counter since he runs it and is his own only true form of accountability it was not enough for him to reset it. I understand that entirely and think it is fine, and happy that he told us that he edged...and least he didn't M and edge, right?
     
  9. Saoconrado40

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    Up to day 40. Proud of myself, never imagined I could go this long. To anyone starting out it is daunting but totally possible- every journey starts with a first step

    I honestly think I’m cured now but let’s see if I can keep it up

    Porn/masturbation addiction is no different to drug/alcohol addiction in my opinion, the negative mental and physical effects are horrendous. The internet has made this a world wide epidemic for men I think, it is a
    HUGE problem! So glad I discovered nofap
     
  10. Murtaza

    Murtaza Fapstronaut

    So, guys I am leaving.
    I know that's very weak of me but I just can't go on like this. I am going for the middle ground.
    I hope you guys get to your goals and further in every walk of life.
    Thank you for your support. NoFap is an amazing community.
    Farewell.
     
  11. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    The main thing is that you do not give up completely.

    If you want to do it in stages, I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

    Like, you might go for the middle ground for a while, but I (and others too I am sure) hope that you will go full NoFap eventually.

    Stay strong, man!
     
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  14. Saoconrado40

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    Are you still going mate?
     
  15. Murtaza

    Murtaza Fapstronaut

    Yes.
    But go4arun is right and I am just quiting the NoFap challenge but I will try to limit PM.
    These hace taught me that there are some other things that I need to fix first and I think doing them will naturally help me quit PM. But for now I am leaving NoFap.
     
  16. bfdet

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    Hi @go4aRUN !

    Quick note to check in on you. All OK with you ?

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
  17. go4aRUN

    go4aRUN Fapstronaut

    Hey @bfdet

    Thanks for checking on me again. All is good and I am exactly half-way through the 90-day challenge. Yay! It definitely gets easier sooner or later, but there is no room for getting complacent!

    How are things with you? How many days are you on (if you are keeping track)?
     
  18. Ghost79

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    I'm still in the race but it's difficult. And I am noticing all women attractiveness has been tripled in my eyes all of a sudden! But it is summer and women are starting to wear skirts and dresses.
     
    Last edited: May 24, 2019
  19. 12ove

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    Damn reset..i was on a roll too
     
  20. bfdet

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    Correct. There is no room for complacency during noPMO journeys. Its critical to remind yourself each and every day of your goals, objectives, and reasons "why I am here". When we lose sight of your goals and "why's", motivation weakens and resets and relapses often follow.

    What are you doing to keep your goals fresh in your mind each and every day ?

    I'm fine, thanks. I don't keep close track of days (One of my many idiosyncratic behaviors !)

    You made a good decision to come to this place, and have made more good decisions as you have progressed along your journey of healing. Go make some more good decisions.

    Stay strong and be well.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     

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