[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. captaingill

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  2. Fredi-the

    Fredi-the Fapstronaut

    Started Challenges Jan 25, 2019
    Relapsed 7/212 Days
    Longest streak 51 days
    Current Challenge 17/90 no PM
    Day 63 of weight training
    Day 12 - reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar
    - checking in with no urges even though I saw some nudity in a movie last night with the family
    - my wife worried and asked if I was triggered but I said not even remotely
    - again, the farther I get from my last relapse about 3 weeks ago, the stronger I feel and less I am triggered
    - your brother in this struggle
     
  3. Ash_says

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    Day 2/90...
    Motivated to see some of my brothers here trying soo hard...
    Will do the same. Never quit!!
     
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  4. Majik

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    Checking in. 1 day back on the clock. Fairly easy despite still being in a funk.
    Keep moving forwards!
     
  5. Overall days of nofap- 20
    Relapsed- 10
    Longest days of streak- 15
    Day 1/90
    89 days to go.
     
  6. RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    that´s the spirit!! Onwards brother
     
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  7. Haddock

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    Started Challenges August 21, 2019
    Longest streak 147 days
    Current Challenge 4/90 no PMO

    Habit made: cold shower
    Habits to make:
    -wake up early
    -schedule the day
    -pray my chaplet

    No problem today but I know from experience that, for me, this is not the beginning that is difficult but after a month. So let's see...
    Good luck everyone ! ;)
     
  8. RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    awesome bro!! keep going
     
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  9. RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    stay busy, stay passionate with your life. if you love your life you won´t give a damn about pmo because you know how bad it is. keep motivating yourself to nofap, daily, and work on your dreams, daily. with those 2 things combine, urges won´t stand a chance, they can land but they will not stay. Onwards brother
     
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  10. RiseToGreatness

    RiseToGreatness Fapstronaut

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    hang in there bro, take a cold shower if you need. We´re with you!!!
     
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  11. RiseToGreatness

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    i reflect about my false start 3 days ago, and i realize i fell for an excuse "well, the last time wasn´t that good, so i rather end it in glory" :D and them relapse again, and it was not good either, because i´m in flatline. but that is totally beside the point. the thing is i fell for an excuse without realizating that i was subconciouslly allowing pmo in myself, suddently pmo was ok, because if i needed to end it well that means i wanted to have a good memory of it. then it hit me, "what the fuck?" :eek:. so i want to share this realization with you, i already add it to my tips, so once in a while i will post here the tips, updated. for now i will post just this update, i hope it helps.

    "the moment you realize pmo is deeply wrong, stop it at once. Don´t use any kind of excuses, especially the “one last time” excuse. Addictions are chronic diseases, technically you don´t know when it will be the last time. Relapses often happen in reboot. The difference is that if you allow yourself to “take a break” before starting the reboot or “i´m gonna fap just one last time” deep down you´re still seeing pmo as a positive behaviour. This will make the reboot much harder to accomplish because you have a positive belief about pmo. You have to see pmo by itself as a deeply destructive behaviour, even one single time. If you fall for any excuse, no matter what it is, you´re falling for the circunstance trap. The moment you use an excuse to fap today, tomorrow you´ll use another excuse, it´s only a matter of opportunity.

    You know how lot´s of people do New Year´s Resolutions? Most of them never acomplishes what they promise because they´re using circunstances over willpower to create a change in their lifes, and circunstances always change. So search in your mind and see if there´s any positive belief left about pmo. Expose it and set your mind straight, see with 100% clarity that pmo is deeply wrong and you want to finish it. Once you reach that clarity start nofap, not tomorrow, not in a few minutes, NOW."

    Onwards brothers!!!
     
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  12. sknnyjns

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  13. EEH89

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    1 week without M for the first time in my life and I could continue but i felt pain in my testicle non stop and i was afraid this is why i did M and the pain went away immediately, i was extremely gentle and i was having rock solid erectile without using the death grip method i was using before. Huge improvement in my sensation and sensitivity!
    NO P for 20 days and i will stop counting because Porn is dead for me forever and i am sure of this, never ever i will watch porn again in my life.
    But for M, i think 1 M/week is completely safe. What do you think guys?
    I am totally agree that P is the core of the issue. But M once/week have any disadvantage with super gentle touch?
    Regards
     
  14. Titu

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    8/90 kinda flatlining at the moment, but I feel like I have made some real progress during last few months. I dont feel any urge to watch porn anymore, longest streak I managed to be without was 37 days I think. Lets keep cumulating clean days to keep groving distance to this toxic behavior.
     
  15. Tiger uppercut!

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  17. Jonnybjones98

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  18. si87

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    Day 12 is over now, phew!
     
  19. Saitama999

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    Day 15 /90
    2 weeks completed
    Stay strong everyone and dont quit
     
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