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9 reasons to stay away from P ! Great article !

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Queenie%Bee, Sep 11, 2018.

  1. Queenie%Bee

    Queenie%Bee Fapstronaut

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  2. Ifatfirstyoudont

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    Thanks for that link, very good read!
     
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  3. Queenie%Bee

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    Did you sign up for the 30 days email ? They were a huge kickstart for my SO
     
  4. So according to the article being manly mean being vulnerable. Emm... What?
     
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  5. Queenie%Bee

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    Ya being vulnerable is “manly” . Especially in a commited relationship;) there is nothing more attractive than someone completely letting their emotions show .
     
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  6. Jennica

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    Absolutely!
     
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  7. So if it's manly if a woman is vulnerable does she stop being feminine? I think most of what is said in the article is good but I object to the term manly. Such terms encourage there to be no vulnerablity I think. To paraphase Brené Brown many women want men to be vulnerable, but when they are they want them to stop. It seems to me most women play this weird game of wanting vulnerablity but when given it they don't want it. It seems to me this confusion over vulnerability comes from the idea of what it means to be manly.
     
  8. Queenie%Bee

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    When I was much younger and not wanting a serious relationship, yes someone too vulnerable was a turn off to ME , but I think that had more to do with what I was looking for . NOW , in a looooonnngggg relationship I expect nothing but true vulnerable because that’s exactly what I give . All it is is that old saying “ real men cry “ or shouldn’t be afraid to , or whatever
     
  9. Queenie%Bee

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    I think he was trying to use guy talk I guess ;)
     
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    Perfect
     

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