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60 DAYS!!! Holy shit time to write another success story :p

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Pyara31, Jul 30, 2017.

  1. Pyara31

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    Two words off the start
    Never thought i could be here one day, but also never stopped believing that i can,will and must get here.
    By gods grace i am here and i am not looking back now.
    I read a lot of stories of people here on nofap how they felt after reaching 60 days, 90 days you know those huge numbers and just by reading their stories i would feel immensely good and just like everyone else i wanted to feel the same way, i wanted my life to be my life again and i knew that it isn't going to happen just by quitting PMO but also focusing on other aspects of my life which quitting PMO did help me focus on :). I am not done yet still i have a long way to go but my mind its just so positive now and i cant be enough thankful to god who helped me get here. i am a true believer in god and hard work and everything that you are always fighting for will be yours if you dont give up, thats what i did and thats what everyone should do.
    I had a very strong purpose moving forward and whenever a thought came into my mind of just looking at porn my mind always went to that purpose "do you really want to do this to your purpose" i cant tell you guys what it is, just a little private but it has kept me going through hard times and to be honest i did saw p-subs(photos of semi naked girls) and that too intentionally on day 21, 58 for an odd amount of 5-10 minutes both times but again in between when i was watching that same purpose just showed into my mind and i stopped, didnt look for porn nor masturbated or orgasmed and thats why i didnt reset the counter, i know a lot of you would consider them as relapses to me they are just honest mistakes through this journey and what i decided to do after looking at them for me is considered a potential factor of a relapse. I know i have to be more careful with them as they can lead to relapses so thats what i have learnt and its all about learning.

    It wasnt easy some of you guys might remember me from a post i shared way back in february i think it was titled "30 days holy shit?? time to write a success story" in this particular section thats what like 5 months back i had numerous of relapses but every time i would stand up and start a new streak. i cried in two of my relapses never thought that PMO could make me cry because i knew it was wrong and i wanted to change it. so i kept on pushing forward learning every time new things, making some mistakes here and there but i wasnt GIVING UP. Here i am today, i think this is the best version of me to date i am just so positive about life now, everything and i want to thank nofap and the community that has always been so supportive for getting me here. Never stop believing in yourself, if i can do it, so can you but it wont be easy, you are also not weak. FIND A PURPOSE, SELF DISCIPLINE YOURSELF.

    I watched porn every single day when i was bored it was my companion but not today uh nope thank you, i think the biggest step that i took towards this journey was "starting it" and i am so glad i did. There is also a cool story in our history that perfectly describes what i want to say now " Akbar(a king) said to his vajjer(dont know the translation of that maybe personal assistant) named Birbal and he said to him write something on a wall that whenever i am happy and i read it "i become sad" but whenever i am sad and i read it " i become happy". He quoted on the wall "THIS TIME WILL PASS".

    "if you want the life that you think you deserve then that life also deserves something from you that is the will to fight for it".
     
  2. JeffrellI

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    Congratulations! Keep moving forward, I am waiting for your 90 days post!
     
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  3. Pyara31

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    @JeffrellI Thanks man and yeah i am also waiting for it :p
     
  4. Nofababdo

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    Amazing man. Thank you for the motivating and uplifting post. I'm relatively far on my NoFap journey and I am very determined to keep going. I use posts like these to inspire me to keep going so thank you bro. Stay strong!
     
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  5. Ben the Fighter

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    Wow congrats man, and keep going!
     
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  6. Keep growing strong bud!!
     
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  7. Hermin

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    wow, what a great story. just saved it! will share it!
     
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  8. Pyara31

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  9. Pyara31

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    @Hermin I am glad you liked it brother and appreciate it for sharing it. It's not just a story but it depicts what happens in real life. :)
     
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  10. Pyara31

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    @Ben Close Thanks man and much power to you too. Keep on going forward
     
  11. Pyara31

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    @Nofababdo Glad that my post could inspire you and motivate you. Just don't ever give up on this journey man :)
     
  12. Inspiring post. Can't wait for you 90day success post.
     
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  13. Pyara31

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    @KeenOnWinning Thanks Man and I won't let you hanging :) for too long
     
  14. xXkiller42

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    Congrats! :) I had to reset today sadly after a huge urge came up but i learned another weak point even though I feel like garbage cause This isn't the first time i rested :( The last time I said it would be that last but now I'm back at day 1 after reaching 7 days (More than last time at least). I pray that it'll stop and I really hope it does. but it sucks, Im 18 going into the 12th grade and trying to lose weight. It feels like allot on my hands but I hope i can do it and I believe i can. I don't want to be lonely anymore, I don't want these urges or fantasies anymore, I just want them to stop I just want to stop fapping. Porn I don't care I haven't seen it, I haven't seen It since the middle of july and thank god! but These urges to fap and these images in my head need to go away. I hate myself cause of it..
     
  15. chancer17

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    Don't be too hard on yourself because of M. I know most people on these forums will say that to be fully clear from thoughts of M and P you need to do hard mode and not masturabte at all but I don't believe this is necessary. I am doing easy mode where I have given up just porn. I was in a very bad place when I started this and am proud to see how far I have been come now. I have allowed myself to M whenever the urge comes but without using any thoughts of porn. my confidence has soared and I am in the best place I have ever been. So if it is just the M that you are struggling with but you havnt watched porn in a while that is OK too. Just be aware of that man! Keep positive !!
     
  16. Hermin

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    Be very hard to yourself because of M. Masturbation is just... Well if it looks stupid and it feels stupid, then it is stupid. Otherwise you are just a tourist on this forum. M. is very far from OK. P and M are two nasty enemies. Don't listen to anybody telling you otherwise. It is a war! Masturbators are shitty soldiers. Get yourself together and fight!
     
    Last edited: Aug 1, 2017

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