500 days nofap : what i learned .

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Razielcreed, Feb 29, 2016.

  1. Razielcreed

    Razielcreed Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys today i noticed i hit 500 days on nofap.
    ->Am not going to go into details about what i learned as i already did in one of my ealier post (linked below) :
    but today i do want to share something of use with you guys :
    i wanted to say that after you hit one year of nofap like 300 + you really find yourself not thinking about nofap anymore i don't know for you but for me i haven't been thinking about it lately because i'm so immersed working on other areas in my life .

    what i'm trying to say here is that nofap is just a fraction in your self development journey, today i want you to look at your problem from my perspective and realize that beating porn addiction is just a first step in the process of developing your self as a person , so when you keep in mind that this is just a first step, you are more motivated to get to the next steps, what are the next steps ? well, it's up to you to know because everybody is different .

    for me personally, beating porn enabled me to have more energy to do the things that i wanted to do in life, things that i really haven't had the chance to think about doing because i was so paralyzed by porn and so preocupied beating it, things like reading a book for an hour straight without getting an urge, oh boy ? reading ? lol , when i was porn addicted i couldn't even Think for a second about opening a book .

    so yeah this post is about looking forward, it's about realizing that this first step will open up a whole new world for you, like seriously imagine if you could be able to stop a girl on the street, and chat, and laugh and not thinking about having sex with her because you are soo in control of your sexual energy, that you feel like you are just there to share yourself with that person, it's not about sex anymore, it's about feeling the connection and that cleanliness of present energy that you can offer when interacting with other human beings and that emotional control that you have that makes you grounded and confident to go risk it and do what you really want to do in your life.

    i hope i can infuse you with some inspiration with this post, i want you to think about the next steps ahead awaiting you after beating this disease , these steps could be building your business, working on your relationships etc , and you need to beat porn because i sense that it's blocking your energy, the energy that wants to be bursted out , that energy that wants to be shared and felt being shared.

    i do feel like i'm in total control of my emotions these days and it comes down to nofap and meditation but also working on your social skills so yeah, i hope you enjoyed hearing from me again guys, i haven't been here for a while.
    ->also if you are looking for in-depth practical tips on how i got to 400 + days nofap
    i highly recommend reading my previous post that i wrote 100 days ago; here it is :
    http://www.NoFap.com/forum/index.php?threads/the-secret-to-reach-400-days-NoFap.48804/#post-354251

    i hope you guys have an awesome day , and don't worry much, you have too little time to live to spend it worrying about petty problems.

    thanks for reading, until next time :)
     
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  2. Napav

    Napav Fapstronaut

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    Awesome post man. Great that you have reached such a mark and also realized about more things to be achieved in life. Going good have a great life ahead. All the best!
     
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  3. That's some motivational and inspiring stuff brotha. Keep doin what you do. I only wish to be a tenth as successful as you and I will be happy.
     
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  4. Buzz Lightyear

    Buzz Lightyear Fapstronaut

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    Awesome stuff! This really struck a note with me. I feel I'm pretty good at controlling my sexual energy [and I love how you focus on that], but when in front of a sexy girl I'm still too 'sexualized'. Then one thing will lead onto another.
     
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  5. cud

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    Man this is huge. Thank you very much for your post.

    If I can add my 2 cents here, I really see that it is just first step. Although it takes balls to take this first step.

    I have to say that whether something has changed then it is my relationship with everyone. Also friend of mine told me that people are kind of gravitating towards me. I dont see it. BUt I feel just ok wherever I go and thats it. I guess people feel it.

    And to be honest I feel that I am taking my second step on this journey. To really dive into myself and my world.

    Keep up this good work that you have just showed us! Great inspiration. It is wonderful how we become mentors for ourselfs, i just love it!
     
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  6. Alex10s

    Alex10s Fapstronaut

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    HAS YOUR VOICE DEEPENED BRO?
     
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  7. Alex10s

    Alex10s Fapstronaut

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    sry for caps.
     
  8. FredSamson

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    Would you say it is the P the MO or the PMO that is most important to remove?
     
  9. programer

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    You are a beast man. Keep going on for,

    With motivation, A mountain shall be reduced to a plain Land.
     
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  10. steven968

    steven968 Fapstronaut

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    Your accomplishment is truly amazing!
    This is really uplifting and encouraging! That's the goal that we work hard to achieve! Keep moving forward man!
     
  11. Cooldude4

    Cooldude4 Fapstronaut

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    This is a great post and I can relate to each of the points.
     

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