48 Y/O Straight Male Looking for AP

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by tiger9611, Apr 17, 2019.

  1. tiger9611

    tiger9611 Fapstronaut

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    I am looking for an accountability partner who can relate to my circumstances and situation. I prefer someone who is in their 30s, 40s, or 50s and married w/children at home. I am married and have teenager. I am Catholic, but haven't been to any church in over a year, I am not really very religious, but am spiritual and believe in a higher power. I have had struggles with internet porn since 2010 and masturbation since puberty. I did mange to stay away from porn last year for eight months. I've never been able to avoid masturbation for more than twenty days. I am on day two of trying be POM free. I am looking for someone to communicate with on regular basis (at least every few days if not more frequently) to provide support/encouragement and discuss strategies, issues, and struggles. Open to communicating via chat thru What's App or possibly via voice/phone calls if it makes sense. Please message me if interested.
     
  2. Freddiefox

    Freddiefox Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the community and thank you for sharing your story.
    You're not alone in this.
    Married here with teens at home also.
     
  3. Tao Jones

    Tao Jones Fapstronaut

    I am 46, married, two teenage sons living at home. I'd be happy to check in with you on the regular and chat about how things are going. I am a Christ follower, so the whole "higher power" thing has been important for me, too, in my own recovery. I am on WhatsApp and these forums every day. Let me know if I can be of service.
     
  4. Coffee_lover

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    Im in the UK, im 39, on day 10 i think
     
  5. MisterDirection

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    I am new to this but have started to see that my life needs to change and I need to get control to be a better man for myself and wife of almost 19 years with our 2 kids 16 and 10
    I am 44 and have been dealing with PM for pretty much the length of my marriage
    As stated I am very new so other than being a sounding board and supportive I fear the benefits of an AP will flow one way but I learn quick and am steadfast in my resolve to be better.
    I am a Christian and believe in the higher power but I have to be honest and say I have not attended services in a long time as I havnt been a religiously driven in my life as my wife and I am changing that also.
    I consider myself to be a very open minded person and can try to see the others view point. Having said this I realize that I am an addict and trying to change to be a better partner to my wife which I did not see her side of the coun for 18+ years. So I guess I could say motivated for change is safer than open minded.
    Totally new to this, plan on using what'sapp or whichever way your group operates. I work on a farm so long hours are the norm for me but I always have my phone on me and am able to chat.

    I am currently on day 3/90 hard mode.

    Looking for a smaller group to learn the ins and out but still need and want to be a valued participant
     

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