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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. emanuel_free

    emanuel_free Fapstronaut

    My goal it is PM I miss labeled it last time. But my P are neighbour girls on the window and lusting that leads to M. Does it count as P here? If not that's ok I'll leave the group or stay to support others. :)
     
    Last edited: May 10, 2019
  2. control your life

    control your life Distinguished Fapstronaut

  3. AEC Josh2415

    AEC Josh2415 Fapstronaut

  4. blazer72

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    I have read the rules and would like to join this group
     
  5. 2pres90

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    8 days down and feeling great as I head into the weekend.
     
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  6. Oscarito

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    I had one month masturbation free! Man, it was hard but awesome. In the past I've had a couple of longer stints (90 days - 6 months) without PMO. These were usually preceded by a couple of tries where I only lasted a month or so. It's as if the month long stints were really just practice for the big marathon. That's what I'm hoping my last month was, practice for the marathon. Unfortunately as you may can tell I went on PMO free for a month before I caved in. One thing I'm sure of is that mentally I caved in before I physically did. Because the day that I caved and PMO'd I was aware that my actions were going to lead to that outcome; however, it's like I have some damned system override button that I pushed that allowed porn behavior to cause mischief unchecked by logic.

    Does any of that make sense? I don't know. But I'm checking in. I'm optimistic that I can overcome this addiction. I used to PMO everyday, but now when I'm unchecked I might do it 3 times every 2 weeks. I'm making progress!!
     
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  7. You don't need to leave the group, but your goal (in real life and on your counter) should be adstinence from PM or PMO. This is to keep it fair in the ranking. If a person is allowing themselves to M and still calling that a streak, that is an unfair advantage over the rest of us who are not doing it. Of course, you could leave your counter goal at "meeting my goals" if that is accurate, but then you will no longer be listed in the member ranking. In that case, you could still comment on this thread, but you would not be an "official" member of the group. This group is for people trying to abstain from PM or PMO. Hope that makes sense. It does not matter if your porn is neighbor girls instead of the internet. Your goal is to avoid looking and lusting, so your goal in your counter should still be no PM or no PMO. Just trying to clarify the rules here, hope you understand.
     
    Last edited: May 11, 2019
  8. Me too, 2pres90!
     
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  9. Thanks for the check-in and congrats on your one month. The first time I went a month it was really tough. The second time it was much easier. I think it's one of those things that gets easier with practice.
     
  10. @blazer72 we are currently at full capacity (20 members) but I have added you to the waiting list. I will tag you when we have an opening, it may be a few weeks.
     
  11. control your life

    control your life Distinguished Fapstronaut

  12. AEC Josh2415

    AEC Josh2415 Fapstronaut

    Checking in again. Back to zero. Pressure was building, and I listened to the bad random thoughts instead of the good random thoughts. This was my best streak ever, at almost 142 days. I'll work on climbing the ladder, again and again.

    I will never give up my work at being free of porn and masturbation.
     
  13. emanuel_free

    emanuel_free Fapstronaut

    No worries! Makes sense of course! :)
    I'll keep the counter as it is to keep progress and if –God forbids– I have to reset I'll set it to no PM so I'll be back on the ranking.

    I'll stay around meanwhile checking in and to help and so you can help me too guys. :)
     
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  14. NICEDUDE

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    Checking in day 0 stupid act nothing much to say thought of extending this to 15 days but gave in on day 7.
     
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  15. eddy23

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    Back from my travels after a healthy, slip free trip. Two weeks sober today.
     
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  16. That's the way it goes sometimes but I know you will keep trying.
     
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  17. Sorry, Josh. That was a hell of a streak, so you have nothing to be ashamed of. You're an inspiration to the rest of us in any case. Glad to hear you are not giving up.
     
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  18. @time2chage we have an opening for you in the group. Please reply to this comment if you are still interested in joining.
     
  19. control your life

    control your life Distinguished Fapstronaut

  20. FreeSam

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    Hello all any room for one more in this group?
     

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