35 and Older Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. Oscarito

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    Hello! I'm checking in.

    The last few days have been a struggle, but I haven't caved.
     
  2. EcoMunchies

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    Quick check in here, day 55, and working towards the 60!!
    Urges are much more noticeable at the moment, and found it too easy to be led down a path towards P this week. But, i stopped at the edge before falling back in . This site and all of you helped stop me. Thanks!!
     
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  3. Sunny321

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    The site also helped me calm down. And I express my deep gratitude for this.
     
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  4. artifact

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    Sounds like you should change your counter to PM instead of PMO. Keeping the no O would mean having to reset your counter every time you have sex, of course.
     
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  5. artifact

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    I believe he is allowing himself M once a week, if I remember correctly.
     
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  6. artifact

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    @Rebooter13 - congrats on your 15 days. I think this is a new record for you.
     
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  7. artifact

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    @Skins23 and @I'll_be_back - we have two vacancies for you in the group. Reply to this comment if you are still interested in joining.
     
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  8. Welcome my friend!!! My thought is this...there is nothing wrong with orgasm along a loving partner...be mindful of the urges that may come after, rge chaser effect. I recommend to view the 90 days, not as a semen retention activity but as a detox from porn and masturbation and orgasm...by allowing time away from it, you will create a space for your brain to heal and to establish a healthy relationship with the sexual energy that you can channel into a loving relationship with your partner.
    Wishing you much success with your goals and your relationship...
     
  9. 115 days my friends...one day at a time.
     
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  10. artifact

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    Who will be the first to reach six months? Some of you front-runners are not too far away.
     
  11. EcoMunchies

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    Ahhhh, a good bit of 80s kiwi rock . Thanks @artifact !
     
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  12. PolarOtter

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    Thanks artifact and understood. No decisions have been made yet, so I'll keep it at PMO for now.
     
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  13. PolarOtter

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    Thanks for the welcome and your comments Tantricman. I get that and want to revert back to a wholesome state of mind, where, when I am with my man, I am totally with him and have no thoughts of the online filth I've seen. I am leaning more and more towards not allowing myself to orgasm for 90 days as I do see it as a time of healing... as I do want all of my sexual energies channeled to him. I love him very much and he deserves nothing less than all I have to offer. SuperiorMan95 recommends "Cupid's Poison Arrow" by Marnia Robinson for karezza and because of your name, I'm hoping you can recommend a book on tantric sex?
     
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  14. FreebirdFH

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    Doing P.M.O. quite a bit. Honestly, I feel guilty about it and doesn't feel clean but won't say I feel like dirt about it either as I have before. Still using it - just very hard to stop. I"m home alone quite a bit and there's not many other things to do that I'enjoy. Wish I could be outside playing sports a lot more. Weather hasn't been good here in NY. Played tennis outside yesterday with a friend, then came home and went on PMO.

    Just figured I'd check in. I know life would be better, not worse having the ability to have long streaks like many of you guys. Don' t know how so many of you do it. Maybe many of you don't live alone? Work long hours outside of home?

    Perhaps we could use badges for 3 days? I definitely love this group. Wondering if there are other groups for people who are struggling to make shorter streaks.
     
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  15. fpybird1234

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    checking in my dudes, think my first flat line in this new streak is coming down. Good morning!
     
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  16. Freeman82

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    No to PMO! Check in.
     
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  17. Circleinthesquare

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    Day One after more nonsense....
     
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  18. Rebooter13

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    Thank's Artifact , it was my best record since i joined this group(relapsed a few hours back).
    I had a lot of relapses the last 5-6 months but the good news are that the relapses are starting to happen more rarely now.
    Believe it or not the main reason this is happening is that i started to feel bored when watching porn , lol..maybe that's the turning point for me or more simply i runned out of good material :p
    The last 2-3 months i am spending a lot of time trying to find solutions about this addiction.I am meditating a lot and trying to understand what brought me here (something like a self-psychoanalysis or something) while i keep thinking about all the good things and the time i loose by watching porn and trying to bring back the good old me.
    Honestly there are some times i feel disgusted about porn so i guess better days are coming!
    What about you friend?Do you feel ready for your new record?
     
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  19. fpybird1234

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    after noon check in
     
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