34, Married, Straight. Day 8 of (hopefully) 90

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Porned Out, Aug 4, 2016.

  1. Porned Out

    Porned Out New Fapstronaut

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    I'm growing to understand the degree to which pornography is affecting me both physically and mentally. I don't have any moral objections to porn, i don't think it's something from which everyone needs to abstain but clearly it's not something i can enjoy without repurcussion at this point.

    I am married and sexually active though the frequency and cooperation from my you-know-what aren't where i want them to be.

    I'm looking to go 90 days without jerking off. I'd be happy to talk about some of my less-than-proud moments and struggles. I hope to offer some strength and perspective and hopefully benefit from yours.
     
  2. yousuff

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    26M,Muslim. Contact only through email, interested?
     
  3. cunjun

    cunjun New Fapstronaut

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    Hey I'm 28 and decided to do the 90 day challenge for the first time but I want to do this right. I'm engaged and sexually active but I'd like to abstain from PMO. I've done this off and on but haven't been able to maintain my progress despite seeing ridiculous benefits when I'm not masturbating to porn. I can't kick this habit by myself I've realized so it would be great if we could connect and see if we can motivate each other to complete this challenge. I'm open to contact through email, phone or skype, whatever works. Let me know if you to team up!

    Brent
     
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  4. Mackswell Hope

    Mackswell Hope Fapstronaut

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    Hey porned out, I'm 40, married, father of one. I'm in P mode - 7 days so far. Thinking of going PM. My wife wouldn't truck with PMO mode. I confessed to her that I keep falling off the wagon. I'm getting serious with this now. I pretty clearly need help.
     
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  5. cunjun

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    Hey mackswell hope. I can be your accountability partner while I'm doing the 90 day challenge (and maybe even longer if I end up staying
    with it). Hopefully Porned Out replies soon and we can all communicate. Let me know if you want to do this and we can exchange contact info
     
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  6. Buggery

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    Also need to get in on this....7 Days on my restart and doing this alone sucks.....
     
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  7. Porned Out

    Porned Out New Fapstronaut

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    Hey i didn't see the replies for some reason, thanks for taking the time. I am in day 22 i believe? I've been tracking on a calendar at work anyway.

    I've noticed that i'm not as dedicated to my exercise and diet routine. I was hoping that through cutting out the porn it'd give me more drive. I think i'm just feeling weak.

    Anyways i will check back more frequently. Please let me know how you guys are making out and what challenges you are facing. Message me if you'd prefer.

    Tonight is a really low night for me. No porn, no jerking but i am feeling very discouraged and could use some support.
     
  8. tbird

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    That's great progress. Keep reminding yourself of the reasons you signed up here to begin with. I'm only at day 2 and I want to fast-forward to where you are.
     
  9. Mackswell Hope

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    Hang in there buddy.
    I've been having positive days and days on struggle street.
    A few things are helping, including reflecting on my triggers. If that sounds useful maybe talk to us about why you're feeling down? What triggered it?
    But first think of what you're achieving by staying strong. Your strength is being tested and you're standing tall!
     
  10. badman16

    badman16 Fapstronaut

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    Hey yousuff! You still look for an accountability partner?
     
  11. Philip1981

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    I'm also 34 married and straight. Would be great to have someone similar to talk too. For encouragement etc. What you think?
     
  12. MatthewSmith33

    MatthewSmith33 Fapstronaut

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    CANADA here as well. Need an AP. Still looking?
     
  13. cunjun

    cunjun New Fapstronaut

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    Hey buddy,
    I'm in Canada as well. Already have an AP right now but the more the merrier. Shoot me a message.
     

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