28 virgin male

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Talalelsayed, Apr 18, 2019.

  1. Talalelsayed

    Talalelsayed Fapstronaut

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    Does this sounds normal?
    I was masturbating for half of my life, now i am thinking if i need a girl or not. I am afraid of what problems should i expect if i started having a relation.
    N.b i never had a relation with a girl.
     
  2. fapequalsdeath

    fapequalsdeath Fapstronaut

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    no it's not normal, even asking it in this forum and being not sure if it's normal is not normal. idk what your situation is but it sounds like there needs to be done a lot of work on urself. all the best.
     
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  3. lirider

    lirider Fapstronaut

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    I was a virgin until 26. Got my heart broken, drunk, then lost my virginity to some 40ish old lady. This was all before my laptop and high speed porn back in 1999. 45 now and PMOd since then. My point is that I always saw "problems" with relationships. Friends wives divorcing them, taking their house, money. My uncle having his trashy wife call the cops on him and claiming domestic abuse. Lies. I feel better now because I saw the root of SOME of my problem ie. PMO. After my 90 days I'm going to make a concerted effort to find a nice girl. NOT that it will all happen after 90 but I definitely am not OK. Still fighting urges. I have to try though and so should you. Best of luck.
     
  4. Talalelsayed

    Talalelsayed Fapstronaut

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    I think you have a point of view. My addiction was very bad, i believe i should have more time to get rid of it. The problem is not when to begin a relation but how this relation is going to be.
    I wish you best of luck in finding the right nice girl.
     
  5. lirider

    lirider Fapstronaut

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    I too was very bad. I agree, while fap made us give up on real life relationships I did have a time before P that I was confident, willing to live, share, had girl-friends so I knew what a good nice girl could do/be for me. BUT I also know sex without emotion (a one night stand one time in my life) really sucks. It made me feel even emptier than PMO. So let's reboot and not settle. Best of luck to you too.
     
  6. DonDraper

    DonDraper Fapstronaut

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    I'm curious as to how long you have been PMO'ing up until now? What would be your age range?
     

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