Dammit. I was on my 14th day of NoFap and today out of couresty I watched porn and jacked off again. Good news, I still can get an erection Bad news, it's hard maintaining it plus ejaculated prematurely I guess I'm gonna start at day 1 again tomorrow.
I’m now mostly concerned with the PE. I’ve never ejaculated prematurely. I would always last for like 15-20 minutes or so. Also, I as wondering are erections a “use it or lose it” kind of thing? Will not having sex/masturbating/cumming for 60-90 days straight make your erections worse?
Also, is it true that PE happens when you can’t maintain an erection so your dick sends a message to your brain to cum quickly?
It is not true to use it or lose it attitude when it comes to this. When yo said, is it a common symptom to feel your penis pump twice in a row multiple times throughout the day? I don't know how to explain it but I could be just sitting at my office desk or walking around and my flaccid penis will just pump twice. I am not sure what you mean by this but have a good idea, is it like when you hold your pee and you have that sensation twice of the pumping.
I mean kind of. But I won't be needing to pee and it'll literally feel like two pumps. Like a heartbeat for your penis basically.
I never heard of this and never experience this either. As long as it doesn't hurt you or persistent I hope it goes away or lessens as your counter gets higher. Good luck to you.
Hmm... this leads me to think our may be physical. I’m just so torn. I guess I’ll at least stay abstinent for 30 days to see if it gets better . Thanks for your help. I’m just so fed up that I’m going through this. Doctors are so unhelpful too. Always saying “you’re young and there’s no way you have erection problems”. Like...they don’t even care enough to hear my symptoms. So far I’ve seen 2 doctors and both dismissed the fact that having erection problems on your 20s is even possible.
I'm going through this now.. My story is similar to yours. This happened to me 6 years ago, my horniness disappeared and I panicked.. I read and article use it or lose it. So I kept on masturbating and watching porn.. I managed to have sex and even had a baby, but my hornyness in my dick never came back.. Then in march I think I had PIED with my girl and my Hell began again. I want my libido backkkkkkkkkk. Mind you.. I lost my libido 6 years ago.
How old are you? Are you planning on seeing more doctors? It’s one thing if I was unhealthy and this happened to me.. I would still be sad but at least understand why it’s happening. The fact that I’m young, eat healthy, workout, don’t smoke, barely drink anymore and all of this happening is scary. Guys who take drugs and smoke packs of cigarette a day don’t even experience this. I wonder if doctors will ever know the reason. They’ve been pretty fucking useless.
Im going to see another Urologist the 22nd and going to see if things are wrong with my testosterone. Honestly I'm kind of hoping that that's what it is, so this nightmare can finally end. I know how you feel bro. I don't smoke or drink... This is hard man. May God be with you bro. Stay in touch.. Here's my number 3475495097 my name is Will, text me. Let me know what you find.
Good luck with that. I had my testosterone checked and it was in the normal range. four hundred something. I thought since I drank a lot the problem must have been due to low testosterone. I gave up drinking for a month and half and my erections still are not back to normal but have improved..
How long have you been abstaining now Nick? Also, what improvements have you seen? I'm on day 9 and 10 and have had only very weak night erections. I'm pretty sure I'm in flatline right now.
I've had sex since and been back in flatline since so the struggles are continuous. My dick since worse now. I rarely get horny anymore.
Not at all my dear friend. My case is completely the opposite: today I realized that I can achieve erections if I see or greet a real woman. However, with pornography I am not getting erections. It's totally the opposite of what happens to you. I am writing this so that you know that not getting erect with pornography is not a problem. It depends on the porn you are watching. I advise you not to use violent or hardcore porn. Preferably look for erotic videos such as youtube or the like.
Wondered this myself, iv read several guys who only got out of flatline because they started masterbating again and having sex, otherwise their dicks were lifeless gummy worms!