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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Deleted Account, Jan 28, 2018.
I want to say that i see just 1 video of mare in my life it is not a habit
I'm glad I could make you happy
From my experience, if you have a break from porn and then watch porn again, you will get excited about almost anything. Then it will take a very short time for you to get back to the same old nasty habits that you had when you decided to stop. I would say no matter how long break you have from porn, you will end up where you were when you decided to stop - if you break your streak and give in. The only thing you can do to prevent this is the obvious: never watch porn again. If your mind tells you anything else, then that is your addiction that is talking to you, I promise. One thing that is really important if you want to break your behaviour is to be consistent and don't trust yourself. Your mind is always trying to tell you things in order to get back to your comfort zone. The brain is indeed a lazy creature. When you think about it, porn is actually in the center of the comfort zone and now your job is to do whatever it takes to get as far outside your comfort zone that you can get. You should almost forget to how to get back!
The longer streak you have, the easier it will get. The easier it will get, the more you want to take the easier path and get back to being lazy. The lazier you get, the weaker guard you will have. So even if it gets easier, if you have a weaker guard you will sooner or later give in anyway. So with that said, never give up in improving yourself. If you want to be successful in your journey, quitting porn is only the first step. Everything that follows is indeed a very good journey! Do everything you can to work on self-improvement. Start to think about your life-goals, watch motivational movies, meditate, take deep breathing exercises, help others with their addiction and so on. The more you work on yourself, the better your guard will be.
Right now you may be in a state where only the nastiest things will turn you on, but as time goes this will change. For example, yesterday, I saw one picture on a dressed girl on my computer. I mean, nothing really, it was just a picture of a good looking girl. However, my heartbeat immediately increased. I have learned to tackle that by this time so the only thing I had to do was to take a few deep breaths and my life could go on.
So in short, don't think about if you will get disgusted or not about the things that turns you on now. Instead, realise that almost anything will turn you on if you stop watching porn and if you give in to the slightest harmless urge, that will sooner or later lead to the same nasty shit that turns you on today. That's just the way it is. Obviously you don't want that to happen and in order to prevent that, your job for the rest of your life is to never stop improving yourself. That may sound hard but believe me, if you learn to live like this, you will love your life and you will love yourself. <3
Thank you very lot Force majeur your words gave me great hope, I will do everything to follow this route and better find myself, I wish you all the best in your life and be proud because you help people who are frightened like me, take care of you
Thank you for the thanks!
If there is anything else I can help you with, now or in future, feel free to ask or send me a pm, I’m just happy that I can help
0/180, reset. I dreamed that I was watching porn again. That’s against my rules.
I even dreamed I lost my streak here and everything I worked for the last year was going to be lost.
Lucky me everything was only a dream. Now maybe time to look into dream hacking.
I was dreaming about porn again. So first streak in this challenge was 83 days, then 30 days and now only 1 day. It's going down! I wonder why I've started to dream about porn so much. Oh well, that's exactly what I want to catch in this challenge: If I can't go 180 days without even dreaming about porn, I am not completely cured yet. Googling right now about dream hacking.