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17 year old NEEDS ADVICE!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Willpower17, Jan 29, 2017.

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  1. Jan 29, 2017 #1
    Willpower17

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    I am a 17 year old male, currently on a 57 day no PMO streak. I have had several streaks in the past all ending in relapse. Through these times(except for the beginning), I was able to have successful sex with my girlfriend with no erectile dysfunction. Although about a month ago we are some cannabis brownies and tried to have sex but my dick couldn't get fully erect. The same thing has happened the past 2 times. I just go limp in the dick and I'm not on a flatline because I get morningwood and have sexual desire. I've come to the conclusion that it might just be performance anxiety and feel like I will never get hard again. If anybody has any tips that would be a major help to my life, thank you.
     
    Willpower17, Jan 29, 2017
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  2. Feb 1, 2017 #2
    oreogirl

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    You are healing from really kind of abusing your sexuality with PMO. I think it will take some time, my husband is 10 months no PMO and he is really surprised and disheartened with how long the healing process is taking. The disconnect will heal itself, keep going, new healthy pathways to your sexual self are rebuilding. Good luck with this streak, stay conscious and keep fighting!
     
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  3. Feb 13, 2017 #3
    DonGiovanni

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    Don't let yourself be scared. Don't stay stuck in the worrying about it phase. Read up on it, google it, how to overcome Porn induced ED. But it will get better, you WILL heal. BTW Any single bit of performance anxiety is TOO MUCH performance anxiety. You HAVE to deal with that as a separate issue. That involves reading, open communication with your partner, discovering your insecurities, etc. But maybe if you try having a prolonged, romantic date with your SO, that involves being flirty, having fun being out, trying something new, or maybe something really physical like a fun hike or a bike ride, could help your body release feel-good stuff from working out, and help you ease into a sexual situation with less stress. Good luck!
     
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