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16 male looking to experience reboot

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ericisout, Dec 12, 2013.

  1. ericisout

    ericisout New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, I am looking for a partner to spur me on to be my best, I've spent over a year fapping compulsively and it has really influenced my schoolwork, social life and interactions adversely. I just recently tried to stop with the longest streak so far of 10 days, I don't think I can continue alone. I'm looking for someone preferably slightly older (17-22 ish) who has more experience and can help me become the person I've always wanted to be. I would like to know what a reboot feels like, it has been ages since I haven't fapped for more than three days. PMing on this website or imessaging would be good, this being my first time I'm going to test the waters on contact for now. Looking forward to becoming a strong as fapstronaut Cheers -Eric
     
  2. Brandon2001

    Brandon2001 Fapstronaut

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    Eric...im younger than you, but if you want some one to chat with this as you start the process let me know....Im free to help if you want. I'll send you my fb address in a PM.
     
  3. Mark

    Mark Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Hello and welcome!

    This might sound a bit trite but this is a copied and pasted message because I think its important to greet people but don't have to time to type out the same message every time. So rather than just ignore people I figured it would be good to do this?

    Just to get you started can I just make the following suggestions (and they are only suggestions)?

    1. Head over to the forums at the top of the main page. Don't be shy. Wade in and see what grabs your interest. Start a thread. Help others and be helped just by getting involved. Plus its the PERFECT antidote to fapping!

    2. Check out the website yourbrainonporn if you haven't already and make use of the brilliant resources there.

    3. Consider doing a 90 day reboot and get yourself a tracker (see bottom of this post)

    4. Lighten up! Humour really is the best medicine and can really help you see things from a new and and helpful perspective. (And you need that more than anything right now. Right?)

    5. Consider reading the book 'Changing for Good' by James O Prochaska. Is a particularly helpful tool for those who want to make positive and LASTING change in their life. Several of us have found this to be an indispensable tool.

    7. Don't get into arguments (especially over the usual politics/religion stuff) We are all human here and we are in this together regardless of our chosen 'path' (even if you believe truth is a 'pathless' land!)

    6. Thank the founder of this site Alexander. It really is making the world a better place (I truly believe that!) And credit where its due I say!!

    7. Greet and encourage newcomers...;-)

    All the very best to you :)
     

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