15 days in and near the verge of relapsing, being depressed.

Think about the more innocent aspects of being in a relationship when speaking to a girl you like. Rather than thinking about having sex with her think about how you would like to hug her and kiss her and cuddle her and love her. Sex will come eventually but don't place it as priority over the other great parts of a relationship. When that sex comes it will be amazing but you won't think of it the same way as porn, you see it more as the act of making love over "fucking" or just "having sex". You got this, man.

 

Ya-Dam,

You need to hold it together, nothing worth getting comes without a fight and this prize is probably the biggest fight you'll ever have to take on. You are in a battle with yourself, it's a struggle between your true self and your evil weak self. It's easy to eat junk food and get fat, it's harder to eat well and keep fit, here's the surprise, a slim toned guy will find a georgeous woman whereas the burger eating couch potato will not.

The same applies to this fight, a man who is in control, a man who has self respect is very attractive to a woman, and the adventure that awaits you needs you to be strong and self assured. Overcome this and you can overcome anything. Imagine the strength you will have if you know your mind can control the most powerful force your body can throw at you.

I am right with you buddy in thought and deed. I am thinking the same thoughts as you and am alone in my world.

We owe it to ourselves to win this fight, I'll say it again, WE OWE IT TO OURSELVES! so don't give up. prove to yourself you are a real man, prove that you have self control. The law of attraction will prevail if you fight for what you want.

Trust me, the sex that comes through self control and confidence is more amazing than you could ever imagine, it's the highest of all highs, but to get to gold takes sacrifice and stubborn determination.

We are in this together.

Please stay with me buddy!

 

I feel very similar to you OP. I really want a GF and feel like there should be nothing holding me back, but after my Junior year I just kinda lost hope I guess. I lost my interest in women and decided to do things that just made me happy. I stopped searching for relationships and started doing 'fun' things like shooting guns and/or playing strategy games. I have not been laid as of yet however I know that God either 1) Has a plan for me to get there or 2) Doesnt. For today at least Im not worried about whether im going to die married or not, or a virgin or not. Im worried did I live an enjoyable happy life. Forget the women, forget love. Just do you

 

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Awesome brother..you have realised the philosophy...at a very young.age..carry on ...with your good work...

 

You too my brother! We are all in this together. We all want the same thing at the end of the day and that is to get better. Like a 'state function' of chemistry, it doesn't matter how you get there, it matters that you got there.