143 Days...Advice for ALL

Things are going very well. Currently texting this girl, who is pretty into me.. When it comes to texting girls I usually psych myself about because i'll be on step A(texting) and my mind will race to step Z where we're getting married or some crazy scenario like that which gives me mild anxiety. But what i realized is that IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT SEX. Of course sex is pleasurable and we all want it. But don't make sex the end goal, our brain constantly is asking itself questions like "should i make a move?, is she in to me?, does she see my insecurities blah blah blah" and what happens is your brain tries to answer these questions. But that's the thing, sex and dating and all of that stuff isn't factual, it's not like math where using a certain equation will get you the right answer every time. It's unpredictable, fluid, filled with passion and mystery. Sex and hooking up, is a byproduct of having fun. Why? Because when you're having fun you're relaxed and playful.

Think about all of your past hook ups(during your PMO days), I bet they all happened or were led by you not caring or not trying to get the girl and just having fun.

So my point is, don't strive for sex, it's not a summer internship or full time job that you must land. It's a byproduct of having fun and being relaxed. I'll keep you all update on this girl!