11 Month update (things are still getting better by the day)

Did you read The Rational Male as well? I love his views, but it is written very difficult, especially for a non-native enlgish speaker...

I have had beautiful sex in a very short passionate time when i was travelling. We were never in love. But we had a connection and we were physically attracted to each other as well.
I know that i wouldn't want meaningless sex either. But i still would like to have beautiful sex again. Its really hard to fight that shit, once i had it.
And again. I have 0 interest in Porn.
And i get your point of mastering your mind and our urges. I am just not at that stage yet and every help for it is appreciated.

 

Amen! Especially the "in an instant" piece. That urge feels so basic it overpowers your brain. The other day I had a nervous attack just reflecting on how easy it is to get distracted. Like a freaking thumbnail on YouTube from ages ago got me severely distracted *eye roll*.

 

Congrats this is amazing. The spiritual connection you talk about is real. Cultures around the world especially India and China believe the Jing energy rises up your spine and activates all your spiritual energy chakras. Once your heart chakra is open you feel a deep connection to people, earth, animals and God.

 

Wow bro! Congratulations on your journey my man! I hope you manifest great success along your journey. Your future is definitely looking bright.

Oh, and by the way, I have a question for you? Are you a vegan or vegetarian? I'm wondering since you said that you love animals. I'm not a vegan or vegetarian myself but I'm just wondering.

 

Hey brother I joined NoFap on 23 may 2018
But by now I can fap around 12 times so now I am going to hit a major target but when the streak going on peak I got distracted and watch porn and fap so anh suggestions for me I also fap 2 hours ago
And thanks for this post and quite inspiring for me

 

One thing I didn't understood was my all best friends do PMO .but none of them had memory loss except one.Why this is so ?

 

Sooner, or later they will pay for the consequence. It depend on how long they been addicted, if they already started watch weird things, and depend on their brain too etc.. Some people more prone to negative effects of addictions, or even some people only show those symptoms once they stopped, and meanwhile their brain recovering.

 

Those cultures even believed eating from dead people's body will make you "clean", so i would treat anything they wrote with a grin on my face.

 

Thank you very much !

 

Also todayI am almost near to day 70.Today I had very very strong urge (Although I am in Flat line ).Urge lasted for half an hour and also I didn't had some significant strong urges in 20-30 days.But isn't urge of half an hour a bit abnormal ?(Accompanied by Anxiety ).

 

It will be even normal to have urges after 360+ days. If you get urge, leave that room, get away from internet, and start reading aloud something, or calculate aloud. It works for me greatly.

 

I sadly agree. The story of Sweden is one of the great tragedies of the modern age. The less said about the reasons the better.

 

I'm not speaking from experience on this, but from all I've read, the chaser effect is due to ejaculation. Have you been exploring non ejaculatory orgasms? There are men out there who enjoy passionate lovemaking and tremendous orgasmic pleasure without ejaculating - thereby retaining all the benefits of semen retention. That's my goal. I don't want to lose the miraculous powers of a long NoFap run so I have been researching how to train to do this.

If you haven't looked into it yet, a search for "Dry Orgasms" or "Multiple Male Orgasms" will be a great start.

By the way, I am really inspired by your journal and your journey. Thanks for sharing and best of luck going forward. I eagerly await your One year report!

 

That is not what the Tao and Hinduism teaches. Just because there is some evil people doesn't discredit everything. Plus there is even scientific proof for it, and countless personal experiences on sexual transmutation/semen retention. Even Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich over 100million copies sold talks about it.

 

Yup you are right. Modern distractions are everywhere, phones, computers, internet, social media, and most of all online pornography. It can affect society as whole a lot which people don't realise. Simply because it works slowly to get people addicted, desensitised, distracted, wasting their time and energy and their life.

 

congratulations!
I am now reading one book written by Eckhart Tolle, practice it. I thought the connection you mentioned in your article is helpful to overcome urges.

 

Inspiring post, brother! Brings a great end to a Sunday evening! Cheers!!!