✌️ 23 Male - Married & just told her - Christian - Amateur NeuroScientist- ENFP Personality Type

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Aaron Nosbisch, Aug 6, 2017.

  1. Aaron Nosbisch

    Aaron Nosbisch Fapstronaut

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    Hi All,

    Looking for an awesome consistent accountability partner that I can attack this with. I am going to go Hard Mode and hope you want to do the same. 90 Day Challenge is on my horizon once we meet - comment below and let's take care of ourselves once and for all.

    Looking for 1-3 people - in my experience can be a beast and I think a trifecta might work better than 1 on 1. Thoughts?

    Longest I've been free is 2 months - been addicted for 12 years off and on.

    ADMG IHS,
    Aaron ✌️
     
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  2. Motivational Speaker

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    I fluctuate between ENFP & INFP and am Christian so I feel like I understand you. I also told her about M but not P years back when we were engaged but haven't brought it up since. I really respect you for going all the way.

    Unfortunately, I had failed at hard mode so many times that I am going for easy mode at least until I reach 90 days. That's when the real battle will begin.
     
  3. Aaron Nosbisch

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    Thank's Motivational Speaker! I think as we gain wisdom we can fluctuate between ENFP & INFP - so I'm sure you are a very wise person! :)

    What is giving me the strength to attack Hard Mode is taking the darkness about porn and bringing it to the light. I/we can't do it alone and we need community no matter what. If you want to chat about how I told my wife and how it's going, etc. then lets chat! Might not be perfect accountability partners for challenges but maybe we become helpful friends through this process.

    I think it's probably best though that we also find someone to walk the same road also. Let me know your thoughts! :)
     
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  4. AscendRestore

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    ENFPs are the best (says the INFJ)

    Always interested to chat about interesting topics in neuroscience. I'm more of a qualitative psych guy.
     
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  5. Aaron Nosbisch

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    Hey Ascend!

    Absolutely - I always need some guys to talk to - shoot me a PM! Lets exchange numbers! Always good to be self-aware of the chemicals taking place.
     
  6. Motivational Speaker

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    I don't know that I would be the best accountability partner either. I'm a stay at home dad, which can get pretty busy, so there is no way I will be able to make it on here every day. I usually make it a point to not touch my phone when the kids are around, and have it in airplane mode often. But we could still be friends. I saw the AMDG and the Myers Briggs thing, that's what drew me to comment on this post.

    I don't know that I will tell my wife since she has inability for empathy (according to her DNA) so I have to be patient and understanding of that. I wanted to tell her which I why I told her about M, but she has no sex drive due to her psych meds and couldn't believe that someone would actually do that. She already has a negative view of men due to childhood experiences and I don't want to make it worse. I promise she is NOT a bad person, maybe it sounds like I'm making excuses.

    I go to confession often and have wanted to talk about this addiction with someone (outside of that) for a long time, but didn't know where to turn. I've been listening to the Matt Fradd podcast and he talked about this website on there.
     
  7. Esteban

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    Hey everyone.

    I am a 24 years old Reformed Christian from France.

    Please send me a message and we can talk about anything you want.

    I am here to help. I have been called to outreach people on this website after God saved me from PMO 3 months ago.

    God bless you !

    In Jesus Christ.
     
  8. dave_93

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    Hey man I'm 23, Single, Christian, also ENFP haha. Like extreme in all four of those letters ... similar journey, have struggled for the better part of 11 years with PMO and have decided enough is enough if I want a healthy relationship but also if I want a better life for myself and closer connection with God etc etc.

    Definitely keen to go hard mode for 90 days and keen to be accountability partners if you would like?
     
  9. Esteban

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    Hit me with a private message if you want brother.

    God bless
     

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