‘Are You Done, Yet?’: Women on How Long Sex Should Last

Interesting blog post on a women's point of view regarding sex. Read the comments as well. It would seem that a lot of females out there are totally oblivious to the fact that a lot of guys suffer from ED and PIED. In fact some have never even heard of it before!

Some of the comments from girl posters.

Men do complain that it’s hard for some women to cum, but I’ve never heard of a male having that issue. This from an experienced woman.

Your article cracked me up so hard! I can totally relate — especially when a guy has problem coming, it made me think I did something wrong somehow. And so glad I’m not the only who has felt exhausted about long sex. I used to doubt myself seriously after hearing one of my close friends (who has sex very frequently with different men) claimed that she always has 3–4 hour sessions (with breaks of course)!

Antidepressants and anti-anxiety drugs really mess up the ability of a man to cum. Sexual trauma, such as being raped as a child, will mess with the man’s head and give him sexual difficulty (especially if the sexual predator was a family member). This gives him all sorts of sexual issues that he’s rarely willing to discuss let alone reveal.

https://melmagazine.com/are-you-done-yet-women-on-how-long-sex-should-last-33597d6c44d1

 

The same thing happened to me first time too. I could easily cum within minutes using PMO but i could not cum when i was with the girl. You should not be scared, just understand that it was caused by your PIED. I had a feeling that i would not be able to cum first time too. Back then i was a heavy porn user and i rarely used these forums. So its no surprise that i could not do anything with her. You also have to take into account that some condoms can decrease sensitivity making it even harder to reach climax. And there was also the fact that it was your first time too so obviously you are going to be nervous and anxious which makes it even harder. So don't beat yourself up over it.

What i have found out through personal experience is that its easier to cum if you let the girl give you a BJ or a hand job with lube and no condom. It's closer to the conditioning that you have given yourself from watching porn. But the bonus is that there is no porn involved and its the girl stimulating you, not your hand. So i think its a good easy way to get used to the touch of a girl. Doing lots of foreplay, like making out and touching before and in between will make it easier too. As you both become even more turned on. You could try that next time. But first you should do a 90 day reboot to clear your mind, and get some control over the PIED.