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I have not been on here in a while but came back to see your wonderful replies. You claim your intention is to help which I appreciate, but your...
It's ok. See, he would argue that he IS fully sexually committed because though he has these attractions to other women that are very strong the...
What? This doesn't address any of the things I talked about in what you quoted. I think he is committed in some ways but I am looking for more...
It's not reasonable to ask him to never have sexual urges for other women, and that's not what I'm asking. I'm not asking him to constantly have...
It’s less about him finding others attractive, which I realize is normal, and more about the frequency of his urges and that in total he has more...
We’ve had some follow up conversations about it and he hasn’t gone back on the statement. I made him give me an estimate of how many of these...
Thank you for your comment. I understand maybe it will take more than a year for this addictive mindset to go away. It’s just so scary to not know...
Does that addiction to real girls go away too? I am positive he is PM free but he did use it daily for 20+ years so maybe 1 year of sobriety isn’t...
He claims it does not reach the level of fantasizing or even "conscious thought". I think I am really struggling with what the word "urge" means...
I really appreciate your response. I am trying to frame things in the way you are. I know that he loves me, and that should be comforting. It just...