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Ive got many years of fapping behind me too, bro. Dont think about the past. Think about the future. What can be done. What can YOU do. It is value now. Forget about what was days ago, It doesnt matter now!
I have 8 years behind me too and I never thought I would make it this far, srsly never thought it possible but deep down I knew that my time will come too and it did cz I pictured it. Had no idea about its exact time but tried to stay hopeful while at the same time I was losing hope. There was this weird irony and paradox in it.
I'll try to update my profile as often as I can to help u guys cz I don't really get the time to start a thread, but will try my best to share my experience and the techniques I used that helped me but these are all tools and can't work without an engine which is urself. Just keep that engine rolling, it might need a lot of fuel at the beginning but not in the long term.
If by nocturnal emission, u mean the wed dreams I gotta say that I hate them too but they're inevitable and totally normal. Yeah they'll get u dirty and stuff but they mean that u're becoming normal so that's a great sign. At first they might happen pretty often but as u continue, ur body learns to adapt to the new situation and u'll get less of them.
But still there will be times that u may have 3 of them in 3 days and times that u may not even have one for 2 months. Your body and brain have been taught and wired this way to think that the only thing that exists is porn and sexual stuff and that u gotta enjoy them. but that's not enjoying that's an illusion of enjoying.
17 days is pretty awesome, means u've passed the first 2 weeks which I think are the toughest but doesn't mean u're out of the dark zone. Just watch out, keep reminding yourself of ur goal, set the best motivation u can think of for urself and especially try to always check Nofap cz that played a big role in me winning over this thing.
At first u may be dependant on Nofap and the community and it doesn't mean u're weak cz we really need help in the beginning so try not to get too cocky that u can do this without any aid but after progressing a good number of days which defers for each person, u can totally rely on urself.
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