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Thank you Candy. Though I have to dissappoint you. I relapsed 10 minutes ago.
My issue is that I had a fetish. And now I am attracted to "normal" vanilla sex again. Which makes me really happy.
I somehow end up justifying PMO sometimes with, I don't know how to say, "establishing" normal attraction again.
I know that that's wrong though.

Oh noes :/.. Well, I can understand you. But ya, porn is still pretty unhealthy, I hope you get back on the horse again soon though :)

I will. With more integrity, and more honesty with myself.

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You know what's funny?
This past few weeks I have just realized how much porn makes men hate women.
Since trying to get ridd of PMO I can appreciate women so much more and they just seem so much sweeter and loveable. Though nothing about them changed, it's was me all along

Maybe "hate" is the wrong word. But rather a 'lack of compassion' and not only in regard to women but people in general.

Does it? Hm. I can't understand why or what would men hate about women bc of porn..
But thats ok you don't have to (publicly) elaborate if you dont wanna.. I am sure some guys could agree with you

Well it's hard to explain but let me give it a try.

PMO made me effeminate. But not the good kind. It had made me into a little bitch. It made me sensitive and easily irate. Of course, it also made me less self-confident. Which led to me overcompensating - which actually is acting like a little bitch.

I wouldn't really appreciate a woman's smile, or her laugh, or her voice. It kind of made me asexual in a way.
Again, "hate" is probably the wrong word but porn had made me unable to appreciate woman as a man, not only on a sexual level but on basic attraction level.

I had forgotten how great it's to make a woman smile and just enjoy that smile and out itself, no strings attached.
Yesterday I argued with a girl and she told me:" You are an asshole."
I just smiled at her and said:"Really? I think you are really beautiful." And i really felt that way.
If it was me back before, I probably would have become sensitive and angry and would have acted like a little bitch.

So I do think PMO makes men less of men and unable to appreciate women on a basic level. I don't know excactly what it is, but it takes away something very important.

I see now and can understand a little more. It's good you're changing into a better man who appreciates women again :)

Don't get me wrong, I didn't 'hate' women before.
I just didn't really care for them and felt neither attraction nor connection to them. I do now again.

Huh, well, I'm glad that you can again. If you're already regaining these things imagine when you go much further into your journey and never give up! :)