I wanna kill my sex drive (I am not kidding).

I used to always have a huge sex drive. from 7 months due to heartbreak and bad breakup (I am a girl btw) I don't have it anymore. I truly don't have any attraction for guys anymore. but this has been caused by a trauma. so i don't wanna have neither kisses nor intimacy with someone else

Also, talking from my more than 5 months PMO free, i can see i don't think about sex as before. I see as people and i don't imagine having sex with them. Without p i have been able to set sex drive to a normal level that i don't get turned on and fantasize too easily. also abstinence from sex has been necessary for me. is m your only addiction or also p? avoid triggers and improve your life

Remove the reasons (boredom, loneliness, depression etc.) why you became an addict. I avoided some triggers (sexy music, some movies and tv series for at at least 2 months just to be safe). make yourself happy and focus on your goals and you get rid of your addiction also use R Tribe, it is a free app where i put my thoughts everyday before going to sleep and it motivates me

the thing is that girls do not really care so much about sex in general more about tenderness and connection, basically small sweet things. i think that if you truly like a girl and start a relationship that is healthy and is not based on sex and you got actual stuff in common that can be good for you. but you don't need anyone else to be happy. love yourself first

otherwise it could also be the case when you need to be single for a while, and clear yourself from all these thoughts (at least a month). what do you feel you need to do?

 

You cannot kill your sex drive, unless you are killing yourself.

But you can use your sex drive. You can use it to lead your life into a meaningful direction.

 

Totally agree With SnowWhite. You cannot kill your sex-drive. That is human and normal. So don't think that you are abnormal just because you have a sex-drive.

 

Sex drive is important. Without it none of us would have existed.

 

Hang on, there is nothing wrong with having sex and having sex drive. All is good with getting the right measure of it. but if you don't want to do sex at all, Start not watching p and no m. get busy when you feel urges or being around people. work out, walk, go out with friends. girls are less centered with sex than guys so you are good. how old are you? are you virgin? did you tell this to your guyfriends?

 

This could be your addiction and not real sex drive. The extreme horniness that lasts for several months of rebooting can be mistaken as sex drive. Sex drive isn't as strong and powerful as the withdrawals that comes during rebooting.