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Why it is so hard????

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by tourette95, Jul 11, 2017.

  1. Jul 11, 2017 #1
    tourette95

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    Since a few weeks ago, whe I started my war against porn habit, avoiding porn seems to be harder than before, why???

    Do anyone feel the same?

    Sometimes I feel I was better before use this website, but I guess it is just and illution, may be now I realize how often I fall....

    Thanks in advance
     
    tourette95, Jul 11, 2017
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  2. Jul 11, 2017 #2
    JustASimpleChristianMale

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    Your body and mind have fallen into a pattern. You're trying to break them out. They're resisting your new path, because they already have one they're use to. But you can win. Harness your willpower: it will grow stronger every day you resist. Become the master of your own life, as opposed to being mastered in your own life. We all stand by your side, ready to help any way you need. Stand strong!
     
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  3. Jul 11, 2017 #3
    ht28

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    In this process of rebooting you will sometimes have setbacks. I started about 7 weeks ago and made progress and also had my setbacks. My best streak is 10 and 9 days but I also had moments when I wanted to binge. The last two weeks though, I haven't made it pass 7 days. Its tough and I know how you feel. When your streak is low it is tempting to relapse but be positive and try to go day by day.
     
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  4. Jul 16, 2017 #4
    tourette95

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    thanks! I still feel frustrated, I mean I'm 30 years old and this problem started when I was 11!!!
    but I have the feeling that I'm closer than before in order to defeat this.
     
    tourette95, Jul 16, 2017
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  5. Jul 16, 2017 #5
    KrmGrn

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    It's tricky. The longest streaks I've had, I wasn't beating myself up. I was abstaining but I wasn't trying SO hard. For me, it feels like there's a sweet spot where I'm doing it and taking it serious but not obsessing or beating myself up.
     
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