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Prostitution

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Wakeem, Mar 31, 2017.

  1. newstart002

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    In my own experience, using prostitutes did not stop me using pornography. In fact, it just became another problem that I had to get rid of and actually hindered my nofap progress.
     
  2. Folarin

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    I'm sorry I have to oppose you but you can!! For me, they have brought me no fulfillment and satisfaction. I haven't visited a brothel since January and like masturbation I always regret it after, in fact for the past ten plus years I've been visiting prostitutes, I've always regretted it. Sure their were some occasions where the prostitute actually took a liking to me and we had some "bomb-sex" but the feeling afterwards was always the same, just like masturbation.
    The last prostitute I slept with had alcohol in her breath and I thought to myself, someone is pimping this girl and she probably doesn't have a choice, she's just trying to get through the night.
    I think more than getting an "O," we want affection and we can't get that from a prostitute. Not from a person who's more often that not "dead to love."
    Don't become dead to love and affection by using prostitutes, you may never see women as more than just sex objects or tools for your satisfaction.
    Please PMO is not that hard, I intend to remove the "O" once I beat my anxiety and shyness. It has already pushed me to start asking people out and it works...but baby steps the "O" is still there!! :)
    Nothing is impossible!!
     
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  3. Big_Boss

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    Great advice! Thank you very much!:)
     
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    First of I don't see anything stupid about feminism. I believe we should treat women as equals instead of slaves and subjects. So call me a feminist!
    Here, I don't believe anyone has to force anyone to do anything, we are just trying to help each other.
    You said you're okay with solicitation, that's you, thats you're thing. But the truth is some of us want something more.
     
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  7. Icyweb

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    That is the tendency of people. We are all a part of the same community, and we want to guide and/or protect the members of our community. I'm not into abusive relationships, so I don't engage in them. I also discourage others from being involved in abusive relationships. If that doesn't make me a controlling person, than I fail to see how the people who discourage people from paying for sex are controlling. They/we are just looking to discourage choices that we have found to be harmful, either through personal experience or secondhand information, or a combination of the two.
     
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  8. Exactly
     
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  9. Fap 5 Freddy

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    Extremely insensitive and immature post
     
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  10. Big_Boss

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    Under my experience, I would not recommend to hire a prostitute in the majority of cases. They normally are sexual slaves and because of that you receive a cold and empty treatment. BUT, in some cases, they enjoy their job and lifestyle, earning lots of money and moving around different towns, and you could have and amazing experience with them, but you have to do a big research around the internet to find THOSE. With a few minutes talking on the phone with them you could "imagine" how they could treat you.
     
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  11. Happy Man

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    I have no problems with prostitutes but I feel it will hurt your nofap journey.

    I feel you still need to nofap until you can stop flat lining and have a normal erection.

    Its also a cycle of porn. In fact this will trigger you to have a fix. Where will you get that fix. Prostitutes cost a lot of money. If you do this, then you will at least in my opinion end up masturbating and edging. Human nature is human nature. Why should I go to a prostitute, if I can PMO. It seems like your playing with fire if you have a PMO problem.

    It's like cigarettes. I will smoke once a month, only when I'm stressed. It ends up being 2 or 3 a day. There is no such things as a casual smoker. Many start as casual smokers, they end up being smokers.

    The only exceptions are men with no porn problems in the first place. These men can fxxk a prostitutes and still be ok. They will not be in a forum like this.

    If you make a huge amount of money, this could work. You will then have to find the right prostitutes. The ones that love there jobs and like you. You might be less motivated to find a real women because you getting your fix. You also need a prostitute that understands your situation. Again human nature is human nature, even if your rich, you might still end up PMOing. You might convince yourself PMOing is better than paying for sex. They don't love me anyway

    I think burning the boats is the best solution. If you don't PMO and don't pay for sex or sex lines. You have no choice but to find a girlfriend. This will be your biggest motivator for a normal relationship. If you suffer from PMO, then this would be your best option in my opinion. I say burn the boats but that's just me.
     
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  12. Godsrottweiler

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    So much win here. While I personally do not agree with prostitution it is a woman's body do with with as she wishes. If she wants to have sex for money so bit. I think a lot of the negatives people bring up about it would be alleviated by safe, legal prostitution.
     
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  13. Folarin

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    I agree with your thoughts on human nature. I remember at some point I actually enjoyed PMO more than having sex with prostitutes. I remember after engaging them I would come home and still "M." As I said before, deep down we want to have real relationships. The truth is if a prostitute really likes you she won't ask you to pay and believe me if you can get a prostitute to like you then you can get any woman you want in this world you won't have to pay for sex.
     
  14. John84

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    I visited a prostitute, she was hot like one of the woman in porn. But I couldn't get it up. Learned I have porn induced erectile dysfunction from the nofap community. Thats my story lol
     
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  15. Big_Boss

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    Today I hired a prostitute and I had a great experience with her. As I said before, you need to choose the right prostitute. Maybe sounds weird, but you need to have self-steem to hire a prostitute, because "I pay for sex because I'm a desperate and needy man" is not the same as "I pay for sex because I just wanna have a good time, quick and no complications".
     
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  16. SnowWhite

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    No, it is fatal to be a slave of your urges.
     
  17. SnowWhite

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    You should be banned from this site.
     
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  18. SnowWhite

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    You are talking yourself into a downward spiral.
    Once you start with prostitutes, you are on the way to hell.

    "Looking for the love" should be the beginning of your journey, not the end.
     
  19. Big_Boss

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    Why? Because I don't share with you the same worldview?
     
    Last edited: Apr 19, 2017
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  20. Folarin

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    No! I think he needs this site more than anything!! Prostitute or no prostitute, we eventually find what we need if we keep trying to get it. The question is what are you going to do when you can't pay for sex? Something I think you need to consider "Big_Boss"
     
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