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Beautifull Girls as Motivation to NOT to Masturbate

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MyNewLife!, Feb 17, 2017.

  1. MyNewLife!

    MyNewLife! Fapstronaut

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    Hi All.

    I would like to have your honest feedback on these 2 points:

    1) Since really long time ago I was thinking about beautiful ladies as a motivation to masturbate... I mean, when I found an image of an incredible beautiful girl I coudn't resist and I took the easy 'way' to have 2 or 3 mins of incredibly a lot of emotions... I considered it as a "Tribute" to the beauty of this lady, even if of course, she didn't even notice it...

    • Does it happen the same to you? Do/Did you consider the 'fap' like the tribute to a lady?

    2) I started with this NoFap recently and now I see the things differently... I see A lot of Beautifull ladies on the street, meaning, real ladies! I talk with them, I have fun for a moment, I just enjoy the situation. Then I was thinking, what if as a"tribute" to the beauty of this real ladies I would not masturbate ? Is like I would thank them (privately) for their beauty by not masturbating... And you know what is the best ? It works! This is the best technique I have found to avoid masturbating.

    • I know my idea sounds very contradictory... But, what do you think about it?
    Thanks for your feedback,
     
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  2. Tony The Explorer

    Tony The Explorer Fapstronaut

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    Same here. You have more testosterone in your body during your abstinence and the girls notice that hehehe....
    Anyway if you wanna have a real gf then your train of thought is great. just keep reminding yourself that you wont have a chance of winning a beautiful girls`heart when you fap every nanosecond. I always think about the curves I wont be able to touch if i dare touch myself. And I have a lot more energy during my abstinence
    Peace ;)
     
  3. MyNewLife!

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    Tony, you're absolutelly reading my mind...
    As I see teh things there are only benefits of not masturbating... Last time I did it was 6 days ago. I know it's not that much but I see mainly 3 things:
    * 'Average' girls start getting beautiful... What I mean is that you start appreciating the beauty of real ladies, and that is fantastic.
    * As you are not wasting any droop o energy (literally :) ), you feel wit a lot of energy, you do more things! You become more attractive to the ladies somehow... no idea why, but it happens.

    Again, the priciple is to honor all the beautiful ladies out there withe 'no masturbation'. It might sound a bit contradictory, but this is the only thing that has helped me. Would you guys try it ?
     
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  4. MyNewLife!

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    Well my Friends...

    This thing does not stop... yesterday I started some night courses, and the Teacher, my Godness she is completely beautiful... One of the most beautiful ladies I have seen in my life... Well, she is really pretty and that together with the nofap thing increase he beauty even mode !

    It was nice, I was super confident, I was doing jokes during the lesson, she smiled few times :) Even, at the end of the lesson i walked with her to her busstop. We had a nice one to one chat during a couple of mins... All these are the things that inspire me, to keep forward!

    Do you guys see also beaufiful ladies as inspiration? :)
     
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  5. Tony The Explorer

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    certainly. Do you feel like your teacher would make a good partner or are you opposed to such a thought?
     

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