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Orgasm without physical stimulation, and now??!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Fenix, Jun 13, 2014.

  1. Fenix

    Fenix Fapstronaut

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    Yesterday I have read a post about orgasm without physical stimulation, so I have (unfortunately) decided to try..

    This is my experience:
    I have relaxed myself and I have thought about making love with my girlfriend...damn it works!! and I have reached a very strong orgasm..

    I will probably reset my counter, but before doing that I would like to ask your opinion:

    How can this experience be classified? It's NoFap, it's no porn, and it feels so real.
    After this orgasm I didn't feel guilty at all, but on the other hand I am afraid that this experience can interfere with my target to overcome dopamine addiction. (This is the only reason why I think that a reset may be needed)

    Please tell me your point of view, any opinion/suggestion would be really appreciated..

    Thanks
     
  2. Interesting. Almost like a wet dream but awake and with purposeful, motivational thoughts... Seems like it's a lot of fantasizing though. But you mentioned it was with a real person (your gf), rather than a porn fantasy. So I don't know where I'd classify it.

    If there is a line, it's really close to it. So I'd be careful, if I were you. I don't think I'll try it as it could easily trigger other things for me.
     
  3. Rahil

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    If your doing hardmode than this is a definite reset based on the fact that you intentionally had an orgasm. If you've been having sex during the 67 days than I wouldn't reset because you didn't technically masturbate. On the other hand if your trying to rewire your brain to desire real sex than this could be a possible setback. Also when I did this it created a huge chaser affect and I ended up masturbating and had a total of 4 orgasms in 8 hours.
     
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  4. Fenix

    Fenix Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the answers...
    I have reset the hard mode counter ( no doubt about it ) for the other one I will see if in the weekend I am ok or if I have urges.. In this last case I will reset everything..

    In any case I won't do this thing anymore, especially because, as rahil said, can become addictive.

    Now I understand why some people ask if they must reset after having sex with their patner.. Technically speaking every orgasm can reinforce our addiction to pleasure, it is a really complex situation. It is very similar to food addiction, it is a part of ordinary life and you cannot cancel sexuality from your life..
     
  5. Nate007

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    if your trying to reboot, i would reset. if you are just staying away from "unhealthy" sexual activities like porn viewing and excessive masturbation than i wouldn't consider it a relapse.
     
  6. Fenix

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    Ok, I have reset, and these are my reasons:

    -Resetting after 67 days help me remind that what really matters is not a counter but what I have learnt and how I can control my body now, which of course is still inside of me.

    -If I don't reset I may feel motivated to do this thing again.

    -To remeber me that I am a human being and failure is part of the journey.

    -If I haven't reset, I could have felt dishonest while reaching 100 days. I prefer to rech the target 67 days later, but deserve it 100%.

    -Last and most important: I can apply to my life what my favourite poetry by Kipling says:

    If you can make one heap of all your winnings
    And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
    And lose, and start again at your beginnings
    And never breathe a word about your loss...
    ...
    ...Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
    And—which is more—you'll be a Man, my son!

    Thanks to all of you for the support!
     

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