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How to get a gf?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by OrangeJuice13, Jan 20, 2017.

  1. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    I did. Thanks for the the correction.
     
  2. OrangeJuice13

    OrangeJuice13 Fapstronaut

    Hi everyone. For some reason I didn't get any emails notifying me about all your posts so I only saw these just now. Thanks for all of your posts, they have certainly been very helpful to me. I'm definitely trying to build up my self esteem to a point where I don't need external validation. What sort of things did other people to do to get here? I can't think of much other than just appreciating myself and my own efforts to better myself. Thanks to Grit, Mankrik, Reitscrakker, D.J, ILoathePorn and Don Draper for all your posts! Every little word goes a long way.
     
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  3. Dude_456

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    Don't be depressed dude... If you want someone to talk to just PM me. We can share our problems !!
     
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  4. Kae

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    That is a great advice! I try to do the things you said, the truth is there are some days more difficult than others, but I always try to do those things.
     
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  5. Grlt

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    No problem! I had a somewhat unique way of getting to a point like what you described, where I did it without being aware I was even doing it. I can clarify if you'd like me to but I'd advise you to start trying as many new things as possible. Invest yourself in activities that grab even the slightest interest from you and stick to it. Passion comes from having put hard work into something. I would at least suggest finding 3 fields to dedicate yourself to -- one that can keep you healthy, another to make money, and one that allows you to express yourself. For example, I spend time boxing, studying business/self employment, and playing the guitar. In my experience, I had trouble in the past because I didn't really feel defined as a person. Having invested in myself has allowed me to really realize my own depth and to be content with the person I've become
     
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  6. h215

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    Hey bro, why don't you try dating apps or websites ?

    At least here in Brazil there are very famous and extremely effective...

    If you guys doesn't use this kind of stuff, and you really want to find a gf, try hanguing out to places like pubs or dancing places more often.

    I'm 22 now and have been dating for almost 6 years already. I was introduced for my gf by a couple of friends we had in common, this could be an idea as well.

    All the best bro
     
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  7. OrangeJuice13

    OrangeJuice13 Fapstronaut

    I'm always worried that if I use a dating up then somebody I know will see it and I'll be embarrassed because I'm using a dating app lol. I guess if all else fails I could resort to it, but I'd prefer to meet somebody in person.
     
  8. OrangeJuice13

    OrangeJuice13 Fapstronaut

    Great post!!! Really enjoyed it. Last night a quick 30 minute exercise session turned into a 2 hour training :p Ran 10km and did further exercise after that. Got home and studied some maths for 3 hours straight (can rarely go for this long studying maths and not get tired), and unfortunately I didn't have time to do anything else. Regardless I felt great and woke up this morning feeling beaten to death but also happy. My sleeping has been so great the last 2-3 weeks and I think I've finally managed to get myself into a healthy sleeping schedule, which is really the foundation of all happiness because it leads to many many more things. Lastly, I used to play the guitar but I lost motivation for it. You bring up a good point, and I might try picking it up again. Thanks!
     
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  9. Kae

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    ILoathePorn that's an interesting advice.
     
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  10. Detraks

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    Step one : fix yourself
    Step two : figure out step 3
     
  11. silenteagle

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    Yeah me too!But I've started doing more productive work and going out once in a while if not the whole day :D
     
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