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No more porn.some ED issues

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by carmine75, Jan 12, 2017.

  1. Jan 12, 2017 #1
    carmine75

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    since I started having sex(at the age of 16) I would think of porn while I was having sex.i know this is false and it's basically masterbating in a woman.Now that I don't watch porn I have experienced some ED issues.I started mediating and Seeind a dr for the Ed.Getting my test levels done.Being 41 it's hard to retrain the brain for true intimacy.i have basically not watched porn(with the exception of two relapses and that was just for 5 mins a time )in two years and have to say I have been rembering old porn to get my self going.i also am trying to not stare and fantasize when I see a attractive woman because I know this is a trigger for PMO.So I kind of feel like is this Neutering me as males?.So to other guys that have not watched porn or any pictures or movies with attractive woman.How long did it take to get the Same sexual urge towards your wife's when they don't look like these woman on tv?this is a up hill battle .just sharing my thoughts
     
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  2. Jan 12, 2017 #2
    Max.Effort

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    Hi Carmine,
    I experience ED on the first two week of nofap, after that it has only been getting better. Actively communicating with your partner about your feelings, thoughts, and problems really help with developing sexual intimacy as well. On a more personal note; I find that if I keep my eyes open I become more arouse by my partner, I know that keeping eyes open during kissing or whatever is odd from the norms but when I communicated how it made me feel my partner was very supportive of me. P.S open eyes keeps me from imagining scenes from porn.

    Stay Strong and keep up the fight! ED is only temporally!
    -Max
     
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  3. Jan 12, 2017 #3
    carmine75

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    Thank you for the encouragement!
     
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  4. Jan 13, 2017 #4
    Shin Iu

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    A lot of actors or actress had mental illness, and the more you watch and imitate, the higher chance you get a mental illness like depression.
    Walk away from sexual stuff, shall the world Award you and improve your destiny! Don't get driven by your thoughts, but control them. You are the owner of your thoughts instead of the slave.
     
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