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How I cured my sexual disfunctions (ED and PIED and desensitization) and how you can to

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by HereIsMyNickName, Aug 20, 2016.

  1. HereIsMyNickName

    HereIsMyNickName Fapstronaut

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    Congrats !! you are either cured or almost cured :D

    I say almost cured, because maybe you still can't cum with a condom, or maybe you can.

    Anyway, here is what you should to to recover even more:

    1) Still no P, Still no M. At all.
    2) Have as much sex as you can. This is what really heals your brain :).

    So, don't avoid sex, now that you can get hard and cum, you don't need to.:)


    You say you want to not fuck for 30 days in order to make it even better. You don't need to. Regularly having sex will make it better and better. You don't need to avoid sex ever again, as long as you stay away from P and M.

    Happy you are cured/amost cured :)
     
  2. Tommy_0113

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    Ok thanks for the advice, but your post assumes I have a girlfriend or sexual partner to help me heal. I don't...
     
  3. HereIsMyNickName

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    Do Nofap AND search for one. :)
     
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  4. Kulka1

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    good advice bro, really awesome post it is important to "come back" slowly to normal sexual life
     
  5. HereIsMyNickName

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    Thanks:)

    Day 48.

    Had sex 3 days ago. Had some issues to reach orgasm but I did. I am not completely recovered yet, even if it "works".

    My gf masturbated me, the feeling was incredible..

    On my third O, i thougt about other times i had sex, to be aroused and reach O.. sounds like the wrong neural pathways..

    I thinnk that when doing nofap, we should avoid having too much sex in a row, because it could reactivate the wrong paths
     
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  6. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 50.

    Good sex yesterday, the orgasm didn't come too late, the two first times.

    I had t be M'd by my gf and think about sexy girls to reach orgasm a third time. It was too much and I won't do this mistake again:).

    The sex was good. I feel like it is still incomplete, but it becomes more and more real and pleasant.

    Good luck :)
     
  7. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 55

    Had sex four times. Came easily every time. My PIED is definitely gone :)

    The third time, the feeling shared was stronger than usual. So i'm also getting improvement on the sensitivity and the "real" feeling of sex. It was really good, I was feeling her well.

    I know that it will keep on getting better and better, thanks Nofap :)
     
  8. Purps

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    Great thread to read for those who might have PIED.
     
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  9. Marsbar

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    I'm glad I found this thread, it is very encouraging.. PMO'd for 40 odd years with pretty constant PE with a partner. In recent months battled to even get an erection. Hoping things will be better when I see the missus in a week's time. Wish me luck.
     
  10. HereIsMyNickName

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    If you follow the process to the letter, things will get better, 100% sure. But I can't say anything about your particular timeline
     
  11. HereIsMyNickName

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    Thanks!! I want my "story" to be useful
     
  12. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 58

    Time goes by. And at least, the shadow of Porn issues leaves my life, step by step. Let's focus on other areas too, we are are to live the life we deserve ;D

    I look forward to reach Year 1. I am pretty sure that sex will feel sooo much better at year 1 than now, even if it is already good :)
     
  13. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 63!!

    Had sex once since the last time, the feeling was only a little above average, which means much less than it's suppsoed to be: divine!

    I just re-watched a video from Noah Church, who says he as able to have sex on day 72, but that he was muuch more physically sensitive at year one than at day 72.

    So, I know that by stayong on this path, my experience during sex will improve, and go back to normal :))


    Follow the path guys :)
     
  14. The sun is the limit

    The sun is the limit Fapstronaut

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    So good to read such success stories.
    Sometimes I get an erection with my girlfriend, sometimes no. Sometimes I can have intercourse, but then erection disapears. PE is also a problem.
    I am on day 61 without porn, Start from today no masturbation and orgasm. Want the recovery as quick as possible.
     
  15. HereIsMyNickName

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    Thanks for sharing. Your situation proves that only stopping P and keeping M and O can not be enough. I assume you know what you have to do ;)

    Considering that you already have some erections, sometimes, you should be able to get erect and orgasm in 30 to 60 days I would say.


    Your best shot is to abstain from sex for 30 days, and then try again with your girl. It will be the quickest way for you to recover. I am pretty sure that if you do that, you will be able to get erect and orgasm somewhere between dzy 30 and 60!
     
  16. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 67

    Had sex twice yesterday.No technical problem what so ever.The feeling was good yet not as good as I want it to be.

    See u
     
  17. HereIsMyNickName

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    Day 72

    stuff is working well ;)
     
  18. Brynna

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    Ok so I am female but I have a similar problem. I can't get aroused with my husband in real life anymore. No orgasms and it's my fault. But, will it make your brain want porn if you do have sex in the first thirty days?
     
  19. NashvilleGuy87

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    Cool thread. I'm interested to see how important the 30 days of no sex is.

    I'm a married guy who's had PIED on and off - can usually get it up 60-75% of the time with my wife. Just started my PM reboot on Thursday, so today's day 7. Had sex with my wife yesterday and was hard the whole time (but didn't last long).

    I'm interested to see if that stays the case, because I really don't want to have to stop sex completely.
     
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  20. The sun is the limit

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    I am interested what a healthy man experiences in 30 days of no MO.

    There should be no flatline, or am I wrong in this thought.

    Another question: do herbal aphrodisiacs are a good idea against low libido during the flatline?
     

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