But I love porn

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There are women who enjoy a little vulnerability in a man, it brings out the mother instinct in them. Would you rather talk to a woman who loves you or you could always go on one of those "phone ***" hustles and talk to some "perf" who really "cares." You have made a very positive step in checking in with NoFap, I guess it will happen for you when it's supposed to. For me it helped quickly, but I'm still very cautious and am avoiding being too cocky, because I know I could slip.

 

Well, by having this attitude you are preventing yourself from exploring potentially more fulfilling alternatives. I know it is uncomfortable to consider a lifestyle of no orgasms. Maybe you should check out this site: http://www.reuniting.info/

It has plenty of more information on this subject.

 

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I can assure you that as you age, and for any number of reasons. a life without orgasms will soon become a reality. It is also something that many "perfs" can use to sucker in lonely or frustrated men; which of course is a completely different subject, but one of the reasons we find ourselves here at NoFap, and I speak from experience.

 

It's hard, but know that Porn doesn't care about the quality of sex you have with your wife, it only cares about making money and getting you hooked. Many realize it is a problem when they get Erectile Dysfunction and then we take it seriously.

 

I understand your experiences make it hard to think of a life without orgasm. Orgasms are like drugs-they make you think you need more and more to be happy, but in reality they deplete your happiness and keep you hooked on them.

 

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You are 100% correct. Years ago, there was a move by the porn industry to try and convince its customers that what they were doing had some social as well as educational value. When I first read that back in the early 1980s, my first and only thought was "nice try." Just as an aside, when you read about the $50 Billion a year porn industry and realize that the "perfs" that do the scenes make a very little for their "work" and have to resort to additional ways to supplement their incomes, all their BS about their great luxury lifestyles rings shallow. When we focus on our wellbeing, our health and welfare, and our peace of mind, their value becomes secondary.

 

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Right On!! Add to that making an asshole out of yourself over some "perf" that you'll never meet and actually thinking you know her, and blah, blah, blah and you are right on the mark. As I read these comments from others and compare them to my own experiences, I assure you that it I know I'm getting better and finding a way out. This has been a three year journey, that I hope I'll never repeat, what a total waste of time. You will achieve your goal, because you want to.

 

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