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My story, 15 yo. Quitting PM

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Plshelp, Jul 3, 2016.

  1. Plshelp

    Plshelp Fapstronaut

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    Wow, i cant believe im actually doing this... I starter watching soft porn at age 12, nothing serious but as time went, i became addicted. At around age 14 i starten watching daily atleast once but foten more.. As this continued i felt more asocial, less motivated, couldnt control my feelings and my grades were lowered (not by much). The reason I decided to do this now, at 00:30, was because i tried to do this alone because i feel very embarrassed about this addiction but i couldt resist 2 days. I thought that with a community behind me i might do more:). I am Currently Done with day one now but i find it very difficult when i see all these Pics on the internet. But i have decided, I dont want to be this me, i want to be the me that didnt cancer meetings with friends just to M. Im New here but ill post after each day and try make it 30 days:)
     
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  2. jfromcr

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    Hey @Plshelp,

    Welcome to the fight. Stop the Pics. There are a number of ways to turn them off, it will help keep you sane. Eventually, you can turn them back on, but right now they will just tank your sobriety.
     
  3. Plshelp

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    DAY 2
    This day went fairly easy, im on a vacation and we went shopping so i didnt really have much time to do anything:) hope it stays this way
     
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  4. Plshelp

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    Day 0

    I relapsed... Honestly, I dont think theres hope for me. I cant even last 3 days. Fk this
     
  5. jfromcr

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    Hey Plshelp,

    It is practice man. Going from everyday to every couple of days is improvement. Work on your triggers, what are you doing before you get caught up in PMO?
     
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  6. Freedomfighter23

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    Hey Plshelp,
    Don't give up the fight bro.
    I'm at your age and share many similarities with you. I have started fighting this two months back and my longest streak was 16 days...
    Its really possible and though I relapsed but I'm now back on track ready to break that record and reach day 30. Just one time long streak and it really proves that it's possible to overcome it..
    Always remember, there's a awesome life out there waiting for you, and though you may be starting Day 1 again, don't look back, make the decision to finally let go of it and be excited for your new and amazing journey of life has began. :)
     
  7. Plshelp

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    Day 1
    Restarting this and i didnt have internet for for days but relapsed as i came home yesterday. Atleast i made it four days.. Any tips for keeping the urges away?
     
  8. Freedomfighter23

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    I'm back in day 1 too, but I have committed myself to 'letting go' of pmo truly for good.. Life is worthless with pmo.. Social anxiety, shame, brain fog, it's time we really got rid of all these and truly start living the life we were meant to be! All th best and let us together embark on this great journey once more!
     
  9. siwek

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    Good luck!

    You can't really "keep the urges away", all you can do is fight them. When you get a seemingly uncontrollable urge, GET OFF YOUR COMPUTER OR PHONE. Workout, take a cold shower, anything that will keep you from PMOing really.
     
  10. quit4life

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    Hi there man. I guess I just found a good friend. I am of the same age of yours, and struggling with PMO. It has spoilt my life. Let's fight together. We can make it.
     
  11. Plshelp

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    Yes, sry for beeing inactive but im going to try and be more aktive now, today I releapsed of my longest streak of 5 days. But i can see the progress and i wont stop!
     
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  12. Bob2132

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    When you have an urge just don't act on it.
     
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  13. Jinx

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    To add on to Bob's suggestion of "just don't act on it", perhaps you can find other activities to divert your energy towards whenever you feel like you have a strong urge.
     
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  14. Plshelp

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    Yes i know, but its hard... Well today went fine and tomorrow I'm going to an amusement park so that'll be easy to do Day 1 done and I'm out.
     
  15. Plshelp

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    Thanks everyone for the support!! Really helps me out.
     
  16. Plshelp

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    Hi, im writing this to be away from porn. So close to relapse but I didn't phew!! I tried the nf emergency app and it works great. Tomorrow I'm going back from vacation and I'm worried because then I'm going to have wifi all the time. Day 3 done.
     
  17. Plshelp

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    Update: Relapsed..................
     
  18. Plshelp

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    Day 3 is always the hardest day for me, but this time i am booked up the entire next week so i wont have ANY freetime, not even when I sleep. Sleeping in the same room as 3 other friends! Feels good.
     
  19. Plshelp

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    What?!! It's gone seven days and almost no urges! Feels so good and I won't stop!!! Stay strong
     
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  20. Plshelp

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    Day 8 and I'm starting to get urges but I'm trying.
     
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