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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Faploss, Jul 19, 2016.

  1. Jul 19, 2016 #1
    Faploss

    Faploss New Fapstronaut

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    Hey gang just want to say hi and I'm glad I found this site. Since my porn addiction has gotten out of hand. My wife is frustraded with me cause I can't finish with sex and go soft doesn't help we are trying for a second child (kinda need to finish). But I can go along time just myself and porn. I'm here for advice and techniques to help me.
     
    Faploss, Jul 19, 2016
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  2. Jul 20, 2016 #2
    Rav70

    Rav70 Fapstronaut

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    No porn. No masturbation. Period. Save all that for your wife. In return hopefully she will be willing to receive that loving. Hah!
    It's a journey and emotions will be all over the place. If you flatline remember it's normal and you will come out of it.
    As you know, your parts work fine it's your brain that isn't working properly. Don't stray from your goal. Recovery is amazing to see. It's a miracle really.
    Does your wife know? If she did it might be easier on her peace of mind. Not knowing was the worse for me as the girlfriend to the addict.
    All my life I had never been with someone with DE and pied. Normally it was the OTHER way around. To be a woman and have your man not be able to O unless he masturbates himself is damaging. He's 32!
    He said it wasn't me but it wasn't me he was fantasizing and pleasuring himself over. So it's personal. It hurts. Bad.
    BUT... After he told me and we went into this recovery as a TEAM our life changed and our love blossomed.
     
    Rav70, Jul 20, 2016
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  3. Jul 20, 2016 #3
    Faploss

    Faploss New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks rav70. We have been to counseling before on this subject. She sees it like cheating which I can totally see. What got me was that I was a late bloomer to sex didn't start to have sex till around 28. So masturbation was my go to thing for pleasure and killing time. Now we have a beautiful child and are trying for our second. The problem I have is on nights when the wife goes to bed early and I can't sleep so I stay up. Boredom sets in and go masterbate.

    I just have to focus on other things like playing my drums or going on the eliptical on nights like that I guess. Keep my mind off it all.
     
    Faploss, Jul 20, 2016
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