How does treat you girls in your country?

I'm from the USA and girls here vary. However I've found you gatta appear rich, attractive and confident to get the girls.
Girls are relatively simple to get as long as you have those three qualities.
I have looks and confidence. And I guess I got money.

 

I am in UK but I lived in eastern europe and spain and most of time it is exactly same. Girls are very different. Some are sluts, some are good girls, some are boring, some are golddiggers, some think that romantic movies shows reality and wait forever for their 'prince charming', some just fuck you to tick you off from their to-do-fuck list, some are kinda normal and etc.

More then country stereotypes I think are valid beauty stereotypes. Basically if the girl is 5/10 she behave similarly like other fives. If she is 7 she behave like other 7 girls. And they just behave different that 9/10 or 3/10 girls. And it doesn't matter the country at least in europe (asia probably would be different story). Self-confidence plays important role not only in men's behavior but also in women's behavior.

 

Why is thinking women are attractive wrong?

 

If you don't constantly feel guilty they can't control you

 

I see nothing wrong here. Everyone can have his own standards and as far as I can tell it sounds more like women have issues with men and objectify them and try to exploit them.

I'm from Germany and it's pretty bad. Most boys have given up on dating.
Extreme liberalism is present and it has become hard for white men to find well paying jobs, so impressing women with money is a dying strategy because they have the good jobs anyway.
Most girls have daddy issues because German society is very hierarchal and reputation is everything so by default most family men are seen as "losers".
Thus they have bad morals and are very rude to men. Sometimes even looking at them makes them make a scene. Sometimes even not looking at them makes them make a scene.
The girls tend to have short term relationships with under average men that can be exploited easily and one night stands with high status men.
There are a few functioning couples but only if the woman has the right attitude and chooses the right partner. The belief that a man has to be something special to make women like him is pushed really hard but the reality is it is the woman's responsibility. And they don't really live up to it. Just telling how it is.

 

I'm from the USA and I've given up on "dating" too. Women here are extremely liberal. So I am confused when I try to be nice to women they see me as weak and when I'm confident and straightforward they see me as too strong and a potential rapist.

Man, and we're going to have a woman president? If we do its over for men...

 

I just hate the hypocrisy that's all.

 

I'm in and out of the dating scene. Can't live wthout girls, but can't live with them as well
It also depends on the city. I think Hamburg is very open minded in a good way, Berlin has these crazy hipster girls that do BDSM stuff. Where I live people are very asexual. Yes and in school all boys watch porn. I see many German guys around here. No wonder

German people are usually friendly to visitors. But times change quickly. Since the refugee crisis many people became mistrustful of foreigners.

 

I feel sorry for you because of Hillary. She has zero compassion for men, your soldiers are going to be canon fodder... as well as school boys.
You will find the right attitude eventually but not even the best farmer can make a good harvest on spoiled soil. Good to see you quit PMO and all that despite not going on dates.

 

I live in the United States, and girls are just as weird as they are in Turkey! I think that all the guys here on NoFap can agree that women are nearly the same strangeness everywhere! Money isn't as big of a focus for girls in America because families are all usually well-provided for, but the whole beauty and looks are definitely a big deal here! Guys are usually the shy ones whereas the women are more outgoing, and I believe that this is because most men in the United States are mentally messed up by pornography.

 

It's just like everywhere I guess (I'm german btw). There are nice girls, there are bitches, there are gold diggers, there are girls who want a bf who loves them, there are girls who just want sex, there are girls who have mental problems. When do people finally get that all humans are individuals? When I read stuff like in this thread it sounds to me like women are all the same and only want guys with money and good looks. But in reality I've seen a lot of men who are not very good looking who got a gf. I think what most guys have to do is stop dating in the stereotypical sense and just meet women on an eye to eye level. Gender roles fuck up relationships because most people can only partially fit those roles or even not at all.
As long as we measure men and women by standards set by society there will problems between men and women. I think we really have to let go off all this shit. Not just porn but what society dictates as attractive.

 

Living here in the United States, I've seen lots of types of girls (keep in mind I'm still in school). I've seen girls who just want to unbuckle a guys' belt, girls who are out to break hearts, girls who want serious relations, girls who want playful relations. There's "conservative" and then there's "liberal" girls as well. To be honest though at my school at least, the amount of people who want a serious relationship is small. It's kinda upsetting because I'm not the type of person who wants a playful relationship or to get into sex (due to beliefs I don't want to do the latter). I guess I'll find someone eventually who's a really good person.