Addiction or Fetish

Man honestly i have no idea were wrestling fits... it sounds like a fetish tho, pretty sure it is a fetish, i used to watch two girls wrestling and the winner gets to be dominant to the losing women. I think by you watching it through other sites and things like that you found it as a sexual arousal, and you must of watched it alot by the way its escalated for you. Its an addiction allthough not through porn sites its still classified as porn in our minds, watching girls grab and touch each other can be pretty arousing, in my personal opinion i would reboot hardmode for 90days to rewire your brain to that of a normal level, but thats just my opinion

 

Dont focus on the erection or the O. Just enjoy each other.

 

Yes got to admit that Girls wrestling and playing with each other is very arousing. There was a time when it was my main focus - hours of it. Its like 2 for the price of one. For me its the time spent with a permanant hard on, sure that can't be right. It is always so predictable, the choreography is usually uck too. I have forced myself not to watch any P atall, because I would head off in this direction again. Stay strong and find something else to do. I have a list of jobs I HAVE to do and anytime I get an urge try and get one done. P is the most wasteful thing ever....

 

Way to go man

 

The way I see the difference between fetishes and addictions is this:

What was present and frequently thought about before the addiction is a fetish. Stuff that comes after the addiction is established is an outgrowth of the addiction (though there may be exceptions to the rule, as the line can be blurry).

 

I am addicted to gay wrestling so I can imagine your doubts... Yes... I consider it equal to porn... I never EVER watched porn but muscular guys wrestling in briefs or naked and I felt the same. It turned me on much better than my bf but there was a main difference: after I acted out to wrestling I felt total emptiness. After I have sex with my boyfriend, I feel total fulfillment and happiness.

 

Ehh. It could be any number of things, but PMO does effect ED, especially if you haven't had time to recover fully.

The coolidge effect (where the mind craves more or shifts fetishes in pursuit of novel or new usually harsher content) could be at play here and it's shifted your interests onto wrestling, as sort of a deviation of 'playing rough' if you want to slot things into context.

 

Are you talking about ultimate surrender??I am addicted to this site...It's ruining my life

 

Walk away from sexual stuff , Shall the World Award you and improve your destiny! Don't get driven by your thoughts, but control them. You are the owner of your thoughts instead of the slave.

 

In your case wrestling comes under both porn and a porn induced fetish. You have to use the widest definition of porn when it comes to pied, I remember Gary Wilson saying that he knew of a person with pied just from photos of swimsuit models and personally for my pied I was only using porn for about 1/3 of wanks but exclusively to fetishes (both in the porn and in my head) so it built up. Unfortunately you can rewire your brain to develop any fetish so you have to be carefull, I just wish id known about the effects of fetishes earlier.
Good luck with the reboot.

 

Dude i know i too have a taboo and anal fetish and normal sex does not turn me on.We have tricked our brain to feel satisfied only when certain impulses are triggered in form of these fetishes.It is good to have fetishes or sexual preferences but we don't have to become an addict to it.I too am trying to overcome this try watching softcore movies to induce the element of lovemaking scenes to distract your brain from fetishes .Good Luck Be healthy

 

Hi @mmouse. Welcome after your first post.

I can see the idea you have of how to solve your addiction problem. But all the evidence shows this does not work mate. The first thing to do is have a complete sexual detox. Watching porn, even though it is relatively soft core to your former taste, is harmful. You need to reboot and that takes time, patience and commitment. Start with this video to understand:

 

I have this same fetish could you give me advise on how to get rid of it?

 

I don't want to trigger anyone but did you ever watch trib dolls / fighting dolls. This is ruining my life, if you did please tell me how you got rid of the addiction. I am glad I found this post as it seems to be a very unpopular fetish