Tools for low self-esteem

You should look into doing some work with the subconscious mind as that's the source of low self esteem and low confidence. Check the Internet.

*B49*

 

Face your fears, and conquer them one by one.

 

Psalm 139:13-14

For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.

God made you as you are. He made you in every detail. He did not just throw you together. If the Creator of the universe has numbered each hair on your head "Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered." then you should be happy in knowing that. God has mapped out a plan for your life follow and trust Him. Trust that He is on your side God saved you so you can be sure that you are on your way to Heaven there is nothing that anyone can do to you that can take that away from you. "The righteous are a bold as a lion"

"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son that whosever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life"

 

U gotta start meditating every single day for about min. 10 minutes. This will cause you to get to know yourself and once you know yourself it is easy to accept and love yourself the way you are.

 

Many will tell you to: "fake it 'til you make it." But for most of the people on this forum it should be: "fake it 'til you become it." Everyone has insecurity, regardless of how rich, successful and happy a person seems. Depression, jealousy, envy - these are emotions that transcend time, race and religion.

To me, the one's who become successful are the ones who ignore society's negativity and, in turn, use criticism to fuel their fire. Instead of admitting defeat -- because they're not tall enough, not good-looking enough, not intelligent enough -- they accept the challenge and fight. And even after getting their asses kicked they continue to fight until their adversary is killed (figuratively speaking).

It takes WORK to become great. Consistent, thorough, rigorous work and effort. Whether it's your fitness, your career or your social life, every man and woman must look at themselves in the mirror objectively and see room for growth. They must admit that they are flawed and that there are many areas that need improvement. That's what I dedicate my life to - reaching that north star. I am NEVER satisfied. And I always want more.

 

BEAUTIFUL

 

In order to make progress or to get rid with low self esteem you can start training your body, getting better grades or helping people.

Let me tell you why:
1. If you begin getting bigger, you'll feel like you have acheived something. And your friends will tell you "heeey Steffholberg, since when did you begin bodybuilding" and if not your friends then perhaps your family.

2. Better grades always give some sort of a motivation boost. I use my time learning languages, and I can now communicate in Spanish fairly well. Foreigner look at me with bad eyes, and when they find out that I can speak their language on a decent level they get surprised, and that's a quick Red Bull for low-esteem.

3. Whenever you help someone they will end up saying "thanks and smile". In my case I always find that spark in my heart when someone smiles, and I remember these moments, because whenever my parents talk about bad boys or people without manners I end up thinking that I'm an angle compared to some people.

 

Its in how you think and what you do. To change your change esteem to a better place, go out and DO things. At first its hard, then it becomes easy and you only get richer and richer.