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For the want of love....

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Discipline123, Jan 9, 2016.

  1. Discipline123

    Discipline123 Fapstronaut

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    Dudes..take a moment to reflect on how much we abuse and sacrifice ourselves (via PMO) for what we really want: love. This love we all crave is craftily disguised as lust. The easy and most convenient way to satisfy this lust is to watch porn. But oddly enough.. what we crave (and need) the most, love, is choked out by what we want most at the moment.

    My fellow Fapstronauts.. we have to be HONEST about what we really desire. Love undoubtedly carries a physical factor. But by repeated use of porn, we "short-circuit" our brains to believe that the physical expression of love is what we really want. And the insane thing is..PMO keeps us by ourselves (physically and emotionally). But we keep doing it (see yourbrainonporn for a scientific explanation). And we lose more and more time to satisfy our real desire.

    Each day you deny PMO's desires is one day closer to reaching this love. This love I speak of first presents itself as 'self-love'..and then, 'tangible love' in the form of a significant other. I guess what i'm trying to say is the sooner we deny lust is the sooner we find what we're truly looking for.

    Good luck my friends.
     
  2. newman_unleashed

    newman_unleashed Fapstronaut

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  3. Ultra Zork

    Ultra Zork Fapstronaut

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    I know that I might sound immature here but here is a reason I decided to quit pmo.

    Why watch people have fun when you can do it yourself
     
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  4. Crispy21

    Crispy21 Fapstronaut

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    Some time you just get really fed up and honestly jealous that others get to experience love and real sex and connections and its just me telling myself, "Why Not Me?" Well it can and will be me.
     
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  5. Discipline123

    Discipline123 Fapstronaut

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    It will be you one day! The quicker we learn to sit with our discomforts and not act on them, the sooner we learn the art of self mastery. And self mastery attracts women who we can enjoy ourselves with in more ways than just physical expressions. In my opinion.

    And btw if you slip..just remember what you see is not always reality. If you knew the truth of how some of these people in the videos actually felt, you may not want what you see.

    Peace my bruddas
     

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